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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Ancient Priestess, (Crete) </td></tr>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Introduction</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
are today are so use to male domination religions that only worship a
male god with an exclusive male priesthood, that most of us don’t
question this. As the result, many people would be shocked if we had
a religion that only worships a female deity with only a female
priesthood. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
to balance this up I thought I’ll write about a female dominated
religion and explain what it would be like. I have focused on
Christianity because much of the teachings of Jesus seem to be very
feminine in nature and would make more sense in a Goddess religion. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Anyway
I have written a book of Nine chapter about my ideas on this and
published it on this blog. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
starts off with Jesus’s teachings like “turn the other cheek”
as well as they way he allowed himself to be betrayed, whipped and
crucified. Pointing out the similarity in his teachings and behaviour
with Femdom men.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">I
then go on to write about Gnostic Gospel, “The Sophia of Jesus
Christ” and link the Goddess Sophia with the Ancient Great Mother
and the Golden Age. I also link this with the work of the
archaeologist Mariji Gimbutas. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">I
also mention the sacrificial/saviour gods before Jesus like Osiris,
Orpheus, Dionysus, Bacchus, Mithras and Odin. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Finally
I go into mysticism and the dance between the feminine and masculine.
Where the feminine talking us back to a world of Oneness and harmony
and the masculine taking us into individuality but also separation,
conflict and chaos. Then why it is important for the feminine to
dominate and control the masculine to prevent it destroying our
world.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Jesus Meek and Mild</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
most Christian Churches we find main focus is a image of a half naked
man called Jesus nailed to a cross. Looking at this objectively
without any religious explanations, this is an extremely weird image.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Christians
do attempt to explain Jesus’s crucifixion and claimed he died for
our sins. Though Christians disagree about what this means. As a
child every time I went to church I was told the following.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
“<span style="font-size: medium;">For
God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that
whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life.” </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Suggesting
that it was God’s idea to have Jesus crucified, though why he had
to do this to grant people eternal life, is not made clear. Some
Christians claim that Jesus was the Passover Lamb. In this Jewish
ritual all the sins of the community was put on the lamb and was then
sacrificed. While other Christians claim that Jesus was sacrificed to
appease an angry God. Which is not the behaviour of a loving,
reasonable or even sensible deity. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Human
sacrifice to appease an angry male god is nothing new and was
commonplace in ancient times. We see this in the Bible in the book of
Genesis where Abraham was commanded by God to sacrifice his son
Isaac, but at the last moment God changed his mind and Isaac was
saved. After this there was no more human sacrifice in Judaism. So
it wouldn’t make sense for Jesus to be sacrificed if he was Jewish.
So there has to be another explanation for this.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">To
try and make sense of all this, we can get from Christians long
convoluted explanations like the following. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
“<span style="font-size: medium;"><i>When
we say "Jesus died for our sins," we are saying that He
died because of our sins. Sin leads to death (Romans 6:23). We were
sinners consigned to death, and we had no way to stop sinning. Jesus
came into our world and lived a perfect life, so death had no hold on
Him. Yet, in His grace, Jesus chose to die on our behalf. He took our
punishment for us. As He died "for our sins," as our
substitute, He prayed that we would be forgiven. Since our penalty
has already been paid, God will forgive all who put their trust in
Jesus</i>.”</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
behaviour Jesus doesn’t make sense, as he knowing allowed Judas to
betray him, he made no resistance to his arrest, he refused to defend
himself against any accusation, and finally allowed himself to be
whipped, abused and finally crucified. So if we take away all the
religious justifications for his behaviour, we are left with a man
with that seems to have extreme masochistic tendencies.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
even find this in his in his teachings. As we can see in the
following two examples, taken from the King James version of the
Bible.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
Matthew chapter 5 verse 38</span></div>
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<i><br /></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">Ye
have heard that it hath been said. And eye for an eye a tooth for a
tooth:</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">But
I say unto you. That ye resist not evil: but whosoever she smite
thee on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">And
if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him
have thy cloak also.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">And
whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">Give
to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee and
not turn not thou away.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">Ye
have heard that it hath been said. Thou shalt love thy neighbour,
and hate thine enemy.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">But
I say unto you. Love your enemies, bless them that hate you, and
pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you:</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">That
ye many be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he
maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth the
rain on the just and on the unjust.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
can see a similar concept in another Gospel.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Luke
chapter 6 verse 27</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">But
I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which
hate you.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">Bless
them that curse you and pray for them which despitefully use you.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">And
unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and
him that taketh away thy cloak forbid not to take away thy coat also.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">Give
to every man that asketh of thee; and of him that taketh away thy
goods ask them not again</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">And
as ye would that man should do to you, do also to them likewise</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">For
if ye love them which love you, what thanks have ye for sinners also,
love those that love them.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">And
if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? For
sinners also do even the same.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">And
if ye lend to them of whom you hope to receive, what thank ye? For
sinners also lend to sinners, to receive much gain.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">But
love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend hoping for nothing again;
and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the
highest: For he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<i><span style="font-size: medium;">Be
ye therefore merciful, as your Father is merciful.</span></i></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;"><i>Judge
not and ye shall not be judged: condemn not and ye shall not be
condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven.</i> </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Now
for obvious reasons many Christians are embarrassed by such teachings
and try to ignore them as it makes Jesus seem like a wimp. This is
why many Christians prefer the teachings of the Old Testament with
its macho heroes like David, Moses and Samson who stood up for
themselves and fought back. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet
clearly if every man was to follow Jesus’s masochistic teachings we
would live in a far more caring, loving and compassionate world. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Jesus
also said, “Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the
earth.” (Matthew 5:5). The joke that goes with this is, “If
that’s alright with everyone else”. Suggesting that aggressive
and competitive people will always end up ruling the world. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
this then seems to be the problem. Yes, if would be great if every
man was to act and behave like Jesus as it would end conflict, wars
and oppression in our world. But in the end he was totally
defenceless and unable to fight back when aggressive and violent
people decided to arrest him on trumped up charges, then abuse and
crucify him. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
Bible has no-answer to this. But we also know that his teachings were
probably censored as many versions of the Bible was destroyed when
Christianity became the state religion of the Roman Empire. In the
20th century some of these lost gospels were re-discovered and called
the Gnostic Gospels. One of these is the “Sophia of Jesus Christ”.
Sophia was the ancient Jewish Goddess of wisdom before Judaism became
a monolithic religion. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: medium;">In
the “Sophia of Jesus Christ” or "Pistis Sophia" she is called, “the Mother of the
Universe”. In ancient times people worshipped the Great Mother who
gave birth to the universe, so this is telling us that Sophia is the
ancient Great Mother. This then gives us a clue for why Jesus
voluntary sacrificed himself. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Scholars,
points out that the story of Jesus is not original or unique because
many pagan gods like Osiris, Orpheus, Dionysus, Bacchus, Mithras,
Odin, Bader and Loki also had similar histories. The story of a
god-man who performed miracles like healing the sick, then was
condemned to death and crucified was commonplace in many
pre-Christian religions. Most of these gods died on trees or stakes
and some like Dionysus and Jesus died on crosses. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Though
Osiris was murdered by his brother Set or Seth and cut up into many
pieces, before the Goddess Isis found all pieces and magically
brought him back to life so she could conceive her son Horus. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">These
were called sacrificial/saviour gods, the idea being that humankind
is saved by the voluntary sacrifice of these gods. So how can this
happen? The biggest cause of all the suffering of our world is that
it is ruled by men. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
can see how the masculine operates in the animal world where male
animals fight and even kill each other for access to females and
dominance.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Now
this is not a big problem when animals fight with horns, teeth or
claws but a far bigger problem when we have men fighting each other
with spears, swords, rifles, machine guns, bomber aircraft, guided
missiles and nuclear bombs. For this reason men today have not only
become a danger to himself but to the whole planet. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Not
only this, masculine aggression, also leads to oppression and
exploitation. In all very masculine societies of the past we find
slavery, serfdom, and extreme oppression of women. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
feminine is in total contrast to this, as the instincts of the
females, in nearly all animals, is to give birth and nurture her
young. So the feminine is maternal, nurturing, loving and caring and
for this reason it would make far more sense if compassionate women
ruled the world instead of men. This then makes logical sense so why
aren’t people clamouring for this? </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
our patriarchal world the feminine is seen as a weakness. Loving men
are condemned as wimps and told that they are not ‘real men’.
This is why so many Christians ignore the teachings of Jesus as they
think they are too wimpy. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">As
we see in many Hollywood films the masculine is glorified. To the
degree that even woman are influenced by this and feel if they wants
to gain respect she also has to act and behave like a masculine man.
So we live in a world where women are encouraged to act like
aggressive, cruel and ruthless men but men are not encouraged to be
as loving and nurturing as women. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Because
men are encouraged to be macho men, our history shows us a world
ruled by macho men is a world of conflict, wars, exploitation and
chaos. Even men do not like living in a cruel world like this as men
are exploited by other men and used as cannon-fodder on the
battlefield. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
did Jesus try to create a Goddess religion where men worshipped
women? To many people this might seem preposterous but we accept it
as normal to have religions where men dominate women so why not have
the reverse of this?</span></div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The Last Judgement</td></tr>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Male Domination Religions.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Three
of the most successful religions in recent times, Judaism,
Christianity and Islam all have male domination aspects to them. It
is clear Jesus wasn’t like this but his later followers certainly
were, as they insisted on a male priesthood and claimed God is male.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">As
Paul is suppose to have said, “Let your women keep silent in the
churches, for they are not permitted to speak; but they are to be
submissive, as the law also says. And if they want to learn
something, let them ask their own husbands at home; for it is
shameful for women to speak in church.” 1 Corinthians 14:34-35. And
of course there is similar stuff in the Old Testament when God tells
Adam the following.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">"And
I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed
and her seed; it shall bruise the head, and thou shalt bruise his
heel. Unto the woman he (God) said, I will greatly multiply thy
sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children;
and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee."
Genesis 3 : 15-16 </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Interestingly
in the Koran, Eve is not blamed for eating the forbidden fruit like
in the Hebrew Bible but even so Islam is very extreme male-dom with
genital mutilation, women covering their faces and a honour system
where a man has a right to kill his wife if she “dishonours him”
by disobeying him. We see this from Islamic scriptures. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
“<span style="font-size: medium;">Men
are superior to women on account of the qualities with which God has
gifted the one above the other, and on account of the outlay they
make from their substance for them. Virtuous women are obedient,
careful, during the husband's absence, because God has of them been
careful. But chide those for whose refractoriness you have cause to
fear; remove them into beds apart, and scourge them: but if they are
obedient to you, then seek not occasion against them:” Quran verse
4:34. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Even
in a more mild religion like Buddhism, women are not allowed any
positions of authority or power. Buddhism worship the male Buddha
like a God, (even though he claimed he wasn’t a god) while women
are only allowed the role of nuns. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
it is of interest that we have male domination religions with male
gods but no female dominated religions with female Goddesses. This is
of course a refection of the political reality where throughout
history we always had male dominated governments. Today things are
different where we now have more female leaders of countries than
ever before, so in these times perhaps a female dominated religion
may be possible. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
what would a female domination religion be like? It would simply be
the opposite to a male dominated religion and worship a female deity
and have a female priesthood. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Now
some feminist will claim it would be better to sexually equality
religion and worship both a male and female deity and have both
priests and priestesses. This would only be a source of conflict
where competitive priest will be competing against the priestesses
for power. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
have had this situation in the past where we had pagan religions what
worshipped both gods and goddesses and had both priests and
priestesses. As we see in the ancient religions of Greece, Rome,
Egypt and the Old Norse religion.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">But
over time the power of the priestesses was undermined and we end up
with only priests who worshipped a male god. We even have this
situation today in Hinduism where they still worship gods and
goddesses but it is male priests who dominate most Hindu sects. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">There
is few powerful Goddesses in Hinduism like Kali. She is the Goddess
of the Tantra sect where they practice sex with the woman on top. The
man is also not allowed to orgasm but women can do this as many times
she likes so it is sex about the pleasure of women and not the man.
They practice the same form of sex in Taoism. This show the
matriarchal roots of both religions. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
history shows us that a sexual equality religion will, in time, only
lead to male dominated religion. This is why a female dominant
religion can only work if men are kept out of any position of
authority. What people do not know today that in the distant past
there were matriarchal religions that worshipped only female deities
and had a female priesthood. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
Greek Legend there is a story of an ancient Golden Age where people
lived in peace and prosperity. To quote: "The first age was an
age of innocence and happiness. Truth and right prevailed, though
not enforced by law, nor was there any magistrate to threaten or
punish. The forest had not yet been robbed of its trees to furnish
timbers for vessels, nor had men built fortifications around their
towns. There were no such thing as swords, spears, or helmets. The
earth brought forth all things necessary for man, without his labour
in ploughing or sowing. Perpetual spring reigned, flower sprang up
without seed, the rivers flowed with milk and wine, and yellow honey
distilled from the oaks."</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">After
that came the Silver age, where everything wasn't so good then the
Brazen age and finally the Iron age, which is really our present age
of warfare and violence. The whole concept of this myth is that
everything has become slowly worse and worse for human kind since the
Golden Age. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet
the myth of the Golden age doesn't only come from Ancient Greece.
Probably the most ancient religion that survives today is Taoism in
China. Again this religion talks about a Golden age in the past. As
explained often in the Tao-Te-Ching written by Lao Tzu.</span><br />
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<br /></div>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
concept of the Golden Age is also in the story of the Garden of Eden
which again is a paradise. Then Adam and Eve sinned and they were
banished into the waste land and Adam had to work "by the sweat
of his brow". The story of the Garden of Eden comes from a
Golden age story from ancient Mesopotamia. Also in the few Aztec and
Maya writing that have survived again there is a myth of a very
ancient Golden Age ruled by a compassionate Mother Goddess. Which is
shown in contrast to the later age of warfare and human sacrifice.
In fact most ancient cultures of the world have some myth of a golden
age of the ancient past.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">One
Greek scholar Hesiod told the story of Pandora’s Jar. Zeus gave a
jar to Pandora to keep safe but she opened it and out poured
sickness, death and evil. This story is an attack on the ancient
Goddess Pandora who "the all-endowed" or “all-giving"
Goddess. So Hesiod twisted this to blame sickness, death and evil
onto her. So like Eve in the Bible story she was blamed for man’s
downfall whereas the demise of humans came when men dominated
religion and politics. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">When
patriarchal rulers took control the people found they were worse off
and naturally complained about this. The patriarchy of course were
not going to blame themselves to made up stories like Eve eating the
forbidden fruit or Pandora opening the Jar, to blame it all on women.
</span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Though
there is an element of truth in both stories. We did once have a
Golden age of peace and harmony when women allowed men their natural
desires to serve and worship women. But it all went wrong when some
women interfered with this and thought that men and women should be
equal. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Surprisingly,
even in the Hebrew Bible it is mentioned that people once worshipped
Goddess and were better off when they did this. as we can see in the
following passage. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
“<span style="font-size: medium;">We
will certainly do everything we said we would: We will burn incense
to the Queen of Heaven and will pour out drink offerings to her just
as we and our ancestors, our kings and our officials did in the towns
of Judah and in the streets of Jerusalem. At that time we had plenty
of food and were well off and suffered no harm.” Jeremiah 44:17.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Somehow
this paragraph escaped the patriarchal censors. The Queen of Heaven
was a goddess and scholars tell us that the Jews did once worship
Goddesses like Shekinah, Asherah, Anath, Astarte, Ashima, Lilith and
Sophia. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
find the same in Islam where their holy book is called the Koran.
What they don’t tell you is that this book was named after the
Goddess Kore, (not the same as the Greek goddess also called Kore).
She was the worshipped by Mohammed’s tribe the Koreshites,
(Children of Kore) and her shrine was in Mecca. Mohammed at first
preach from the Koran of the Goddess Kore but then completely rewrote
it after he was banished from Mecca. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is why some Mullahs can claim Islam is a religion of peace, because
it seems some of the original teachings from the Goddess Kore
survives in the present day Koran. It even talks about the Oneness of
God. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">At
one time modern academics have rejected these Golden Age legends as
pure myth. Not only do they sound too good to be true. Recorded
history seem to show a different story. They claim that the further
you go back in history the more brutal and violent men seem to
behave. After all we do not have human sacrifice any more. Though it
has to be admitted we still have genocide and wars as we have seen
with the Nazi and Po-Pot regimes in the last century. In spite of
that it has been assumed by archaeologists that people in
pre-historic times were even more brutal than people in historic
times. But in the last century archaeology discoveries have
challenged this assumption.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
the 1960s a archaeologists called Mellaart lead a team to excavate a
site in Anatolia in Turkey. This site turn out to be the oldest city
ever discovered. Called Catal Huyuk it goes back over 9,000 years.
What was discovered goes against all assumptions archaeologist have
about people living in Neolithic times. They couldn't find any
fortifications to defend the city or any weapons of war. Neither
could they find signs of violence committed on people buried in
graves. It was also a city full of feminine imagery to the degree
that Mellaart was force to say that the people worshipped the Ancient
Great Mother.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
unsettling was these discoveries that the site was closed down for
thirty years and the academic world ignored the implications of this
find. But there was one archaeologist who was brave enough to
challenge the accepted wisdom of the academic world.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
late Mariji Gimbutas went digging in other Neolithic sites and found
similar findings. She also highlight the Neolithic findings that
Soviet scientists had made in Transylvania. As well as Goddess
civilizations found in Crete and Malta. All showing peaceful
societies that worshipped the Great Mother. Gimbutas became a very
controversial figure and her books and work was rejected by the
academic world. But other archaeologist were also making similar
finds. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
Indus Valley civilization in Pakistan was again an Ancient society
that archaeologists could find no signs violence or weapons of war.
Even more recently in Caral in Peru the oldest city ever discovered
in South America, going back to 5,000 years, the same thing was
discovered. Given the violent history of later South American
civilizations with mass human sacrifice archaeologists expected to
find the same thing. But no matter how hard they looked they
couldn’t find any evidence of human sacrifice, warfare or any other
indication of violence. And they had to conclude that this
civilization existed in peace for thousands of years.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
overwhelming evidence of these finding have made more modern academic
wonder if Mariji Gimutas might be right after all. Some are coming
out of the woodwork and supporting her like Richard Rudgley in his
book "Lost Civilizations Of The Stone Age".</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
what is the implication of these findings?</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">No
longer can it be claimed that we lived in the stone age as savage
brutes. As it seems that violence started thousands of years after
the first civilizations got started. It also brings into question if
men are naturally violence.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">After
the second world war the American military did a study on how well
their troops done in the war. They interviewed a large number of
ex-servicemen and found that only a small minority admitted to
killing the enemy. Most claimed that they only shot above the heads
of the opposing side and didn't want the deaths of the enemy on their
conscience.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
contrast in the same war the Japanese troops had a reputation of
brutality and ruthlessness. But the Japanese military training was
very harsh. The new recruits were beaten up by older soldiers at the
beginning of their training and then after their first year they were
encouraged to do the same to the newer recruits. Later on in their
training they were taught to kill by killing prisoners of war. So it
seems that the Japanese military knew that to turn an ordinary
Japanese male into a effective killing machine, they had to
completely brutalize him.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
same is true of the German soldiers under the Nazis, where again the
ordinary soldier was again brutalized. Yet in spite of this, when
the Nazis started their genocide against the Jews they at first just
took groups of Jews into the forest and had them shot by ordinary
soldiers. But the effect of shooting defenceless civilians had a
devastating effect on many of the soldiers ordered to do this and
some committed suicide afterwards. This became such a problem for
the Nazis that other methods like gas chambers, had to be used to
conduct mass murder that didn’t involve using ordinary servicemen.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">During
the Falklands war 250 British servicemen lost their lives. 20 years
after the war 265 men who saw action during the war have since
committed suicide. Even worse figure are shown for the American
troops that fought in the Vietnam war. Though this is a controversial
subject in USA and it is hard to get exact figures.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">If
the Japanese military had to brutalize their troops to make them
kill. While soldiers in Britain and America as so upset by the
experience of war that many have since committed suicide. It calls
into question whether men are naturally violent. Yet recorded
history is a history of war, genocide and cruelty. So if it is not
natural for men to be violent, why is it still going on?</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
all the Golden age legends they do not explain why things started to
go wrong. But Gimbutas claims that the downfall of many of the
peaceful Goddess civilizations as caused by violent patriarchal
tribes invading them from the north. So it suggests that it was the
invention of war that ended the last Golden Age. Where the early
patriarchal rulers behaved like Mafia bosses in imposing a reign of
terror on the people, then started a protection racket that was in
effect the first taxation.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
the good news is that a Golden age did exist in the past, and we are
not naturally violent. Most men have to be brainwashed into being
like this through brutalization. The bad news is that the Pandora's
Box has been opened in that violent men have found they can rule
countries and even empires through fear and violence.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">But
this is not what the majority of us want. Most of us do not want to
live in a world of war and violence and it is up to us to not allow a
minority of violent men spoilt it for us all. We have to learn how to
stop our young people being brutalized by school bullies, street
gangs, prisons, poverty, unemployment, violent films and video games,
violent parents and the military. Then we can perhaps get back to
living once again in a new Golden Age of peace and prosperity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The Sacrificial/Saviour Gods</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">If
we accept the matriarchal theory, which goes: In the past there was
once a peaceful and caring matriarchal age that worshipped the Great
Mother. In this age women ruled society and men never questioned
this rule. Then women began to allow men more freedom but this went
too far and men abused this this and ended up taking over and ruling
society through violence. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Clearly
if we look at the history of the last four or five thousand years we
can see clearly that men have made a terrible job at ruling the
world. Men's answer to all problems has been aggression and
violence, which has created a world of wars, genocide, poverty, fear,
hatred and suffering. This was clearly seen two to three thousand
years ago at the time of the saviour gods when there was still
knowledge of the ancient matriarchal past. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">At
that time there must have been a large number of people who wanted
the world to return to matriarchy and the worship of the Great
Mother. But what was preventing this, was violent and aggressive
men.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">What
is clear is that the ancient religion were totally female dominated
religions, but then these women allowed men power and some of these
men took advantage and brought into being the patriarchal age.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
sacrificial/saviour god religions where probably an attempt to create
female domination religions in ancient times. It is of interest that
all these sacrificial/saviour god religions were also called Mystery
religions. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Now
in all Mystery religions there is an outer and inner mystery, where
all knowledge of the inner mysteries is unknown except of an
initiated few. In the earlier Mystery plays the saviour god
sacrificed themselves to The Great Mother. For instance, in the
Nordic mythology, Loki, one of their oldest Gods, was sacrificed to
the Goddess Skadi. While even in the Jesus story, his crucifixion is
witnessed by the three Marys. Who probably represented in earlier
times the Triple Goddesses.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Jesus
is also called a king and this may be about a very ancient tradition
where the king is sacrifice. It seems in the matriarchal past only
queens could rule but she had consort kings. These were mostly young
men, and if the queen grew tired of him then he was sacrificed for
the fertility of the land. Why this happened might be because a
deposed king may be angry at his lost of power and status and stir up
trouble for the Queen. Or he might be executed because he began to
abuse his power, and tried to undermine or disobey the Queen. So the
sacrifice of kings had a long tradition until with the rise of
patriarchy and kings became too powerful to allow themselves to be
sacrificed.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">For
this reason, the tradition of the sacrificing the king may have
happened as matriarchy was declining. In a true matriarchal society
men would not expect to have any power, and so a Queen could have
many lovers with no fear that these men will want to take away her
powers. As it would have been unthinkable in those days, that a male
could, depose a queen and rule in her place. But with the rise of
patriarchy, then queens may find themselves with lovers with strong
political ambitions. So the only way to deal with them, was to have
them executed, or threaten them with execution and claim it was a
sacrifice.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
type of sacrifice probably wasn't voluntary, but in the savoir god
tradition it was. It was made very clear in the Bible that Jesus
made no attempt to resist himself being crucified. So from this we
have to ask the question how can the voluntary sacrifice of the
god-man to the Great Mother, save us all? </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
problem for people living near any patriarchal society who attempted
to set up a matriarchal society of love and harmony, would be quickly
conquered by violent men, who were only interested in loot and
enslaving the population. So it would be clear that the cause of all
the wars, violence, poverty and suffering was these selfish and
violent men. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
know from history that the Amazons did for a while attempt to fight
fire with fire and fight back. But this clearly wasn't the answer
because by becoming violent yourself you become exactly like the
people you are fighting against. In other words the only way Amazons
could be free was to become as aggressive, ruthless and violence as
the men they fought. The Amazons failed to stop the rising tide of
patriarchy, probably because women were unable to become as brutal
and ruthless as men.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Now
Femdom could be the solution for this problem. In military history
there has been many cases where a small army of soldier have defeated
far larger armies. The most famous was the Battle of Thermopylae when
300 Spartans stopped a very large Persian army. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
is mostly claim that this can only happen because the small army was
better trained, but that is not the only the only reason for this. A
group of psychopaths who have no qualms about killing people is going
to have a big advantage in a battle again ordinary men who don’t
like the thought of killing others. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
know a big problem for any military is forcing troops to kill others
and they normally do this by brutalising them. This is of course
going to be a big problem for any loving and caring Matriarchal
society because men will not be brutalised enough to want to kill
other men in a war and so will be easy defeated in any military
conflict. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
answer to this problem might be Femdom, where men have masochistic
desires for sadistic women. Most women don’t like whipping or
torturing men but as we see in the Femdom scene there are some women
who are happy to do this. So women like this can become officers in
any matriarchal army and brutalise their male troops in the way any
patriarchal army does. So they will be able fight and kill the men of
any patriarchal army trying to invade them.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Unfortunately,
as far as we know we didn’t have femdom in ancient times, or if we
did no-one thought of using it, to brutalise troops. Instead women
decided on a different strategy and attempted to reform these violent
men. To do this they gave them a vision of what a caring and loving
world would be like and explaining to them this is only possible if
men are willing to sacrifice yourself to the Great Mother. So a
story was created about a drama of heroic sacrifice, of a God-man
sacrificing himself for the good of the world. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">To
some degree this seems to of been successful because all over Europe
and the Middle East there were saviour god religions. So it seems
many men were willing to sacrifice themselves to the Goddess in these
Mystery religions. Unfortunately, these religions became victims of
their own success, because patriarchal leaders who had no interested
in sacrificing themselves, saw these religions as a threat to their
power and set about either destroying them or taking them over.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
is of interest that early Christianity was very popular among the
slaves of the Roman empire. This would make sense as many
matriarchal societies where victims of the conquering Romans, so
there would be a tradition of the worship of the Mother Goddess among
the slaves. For this reason they would be very sympathetic to a
saviour god religion like early Christianity. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
the 3th century AD, Rome found itself with three large Saviour God
religions. The largest was the Egyptian religion of the Goddess Isis
and her saviour god Osiris. Then there were two other the Christians
and another based on the saviour God Mithras. </span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Isis raising </span><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Osiris from the dead</span></span></span></td></tr>
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<div style="text-align: center;">
<br />
<div style="text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Attempts
by the Roman ruling elite to stamp out these saviour god religions,
was at first unsuccessful. They were unsuccessful in destroying
Christianity, while the Isis religion was popular in the Roman
military so this could cause a civil war if they attempted this. </span>
</div>
</div>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
the ruling elite instead attempted to promote a religion based on
another saviour god Mithras, as it was the religion they preferred
but this didn't receive enough support from the people. So in the end
they decided that if you can't beat them join them. They clearly
didn’t want a Goddess religion like the the Isis religion and so
Christianity became the final choice. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
Roman rulers simply hijacked the Christian religion and changed it to
make it acceptable to them. They then set about destroying the
religion of Isis were able to convert people in this religion to
Christianity because both religions were similar. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">But
they also destroyed Christian sects like the Egyptian Gnostics that
refused follow the type of Christianity put forward by the Roman
elite. The actual teachings of Jesus like, "loving your
neighbour", "turning the other cheek" was quickly
ignored as the Roman rulers and became more interested in the
religion of Judaism and promoted this, rather than what was taught by
the early Christian Church. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
promotion of Judaism was the opposite to what many early Gnostic
Christians taught, as they referred to the Jewish Jehovah god as the
Demiurge and claimed he was a evil god from whom Jesus came to save
humankind. The original New Testament was suppose to be an attack on
the Old Testament and the patriarchal religion of Judaism, but this
was soon changed to endorsing it.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Another
big change was that many of the saviour god religions promoted sexual
freedom. We can see this is the religions of Dionysus and Bacchus
where many of the famous Roman orgies were Bacchus festivals. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Sexual
freedom at the time benefited wealthy women. This was because if
women had a sexual licence to have sex with whoever they liked, then
no one could say for sure whom were the fathers of their children and
so, rich and powerful men had little idea who were their sons. This
meant that inheritance of wealth and power could only come down the
female line. Meaning that, a large amount of wealth and power stayed
in the hands of women. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
seems that early Christianity was also an orgiastic religion of free
love, before it became a state religion. To promote the power of
men, Christianity was changed to have strict marriage laws where it
became a sin to have sex outside of marriage. (Though this only
applied to women and not men). The idea being that rich and powerful
men now knew whom their sons were and could pass their wealth and
power down the male line, preventing it getting into the hands of
women.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Then
Christianity as a state religion and later the Moslems set about
destroying all knowledge of the ancient religion of the Great Mother.
With this knowledge finally forgotten by the common people, they
were then able to put forward the idea that Jesus sacrificed himself
to an angry god to appease him. Rather then the idea, that all men
need to sacrifice themselves to the Great Mother, and to women,
before we can have a peaceful matriarchal world once again.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Perhaps
the mystery religions of the past were a few thousand years before
their time. They were trying to promote a vision of a peaceful and
loving world in a very violent age. Today in the 21st century we see
in the West at least a different attitude to violent men. It is far
less acceptable for Western rulers to go out and conquer other
countries, (though it still goes on, as we saw in the recent Iraq and
Afghanistan wars). And it is far less acceptable for them to rule
through fear and intimation. Western rulers today are forced to
listen to the needs and desires of the common people and even respect
the views and opinions of minorities. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
perhaps the sacrificial/saviour god image within Christianity acted
as a Trojan Horse for the patriarchal age. On the collective
unconscious level it created a archetype that has influenced all men
in Christian countries for the last two thousand years. So that the
idea of voluntary sacrifice has become acceptable to men which is
starting to bear fruit in the last hundred years. It is interesting
that feminism has progressed in Christian countries where men allow
women to demand equal rights. This is in stark contrast in Islam
countries where feminist women are beaten up, put into jail, and
murdered by being stoned and beheaded. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
contrast, we have seen in Christian countries Jesus like men, in
Hippies of the 1960s where men have tried to practise peace and love.
Or ideas of the "new man" where men stay at home to look
after the house and family while his wife goes out to work. In its
more extreme form, we have the concept of Femdom where women totally
dominate men. So are these men very much in tune with the archetypal
sacrificial/saviour god? Clearly if all men are strongly influenced
by this powerful archetypal it will save the world from violence,
wars and suffering.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Although
Christianity has mostly ignored the teachings of Jesus and have
concentrated more on the Old Testament god of judgement and fear, the
symbols of a sacrificial Jesus are seen in all Churches. Also, the
Great Mother is represented in Roman Catholic Churches in the
disguise of the Virgin Mary. So even though many Christian priests
have only paid lip-service to the teachings of Jesus and the drama of
his betrayal and crucifixion, this is still taught. These symbols,
dramas and teachings have been unconsciously influencing men in
Christian Counties ever since Christianity became a state religion.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
although in the short term the attempt by matriarchal women to create
a submissive saviour god in the past seems like a failure. The
popularity of the sacrificial drama of Jesus Christ has brought about
an archetypal change in men, which will allow men to surrender
themselves to women and bring about a new matriarchal age. After
all, it is in Christian countries where we see the rise in feminism
during the 20th century and more recently the beginnings of Female
Domination. The concept of the sacrificial god, does seem to be
working on minds of men to allow themselves to tune into this
powerful archetype.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Although
for us to have peaceful Matriarchal societies we also need an army
with female officers using femdom methods to train their troops again
any invading patriarchal army. </span>
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p { margin-bottom: 0.25cm; line-height: 115% }</style>williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05285178912635949559noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-669812582750495196.post-19127820245393300692020-04-20T06:26:00.001-07:002023-03-13T03:44:01.061-07:00Gynocentric Christianity: Chapter Four<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Odin on the tree of <span class="js-about-item-abstr">Yggdrasil</span></td></tr>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The Masochistic Man</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
the past and even now religions like Christianity, Judaism and Islam
encouraged men to play the dominant role in their relationships with
women. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
problem is for most men that only a handful of men get to play the
dominant role. In our hierarchical system only the leaders are in a
dominant position and have real power, most men are powerless. So the
femdom scene reflects the true situation of the majority of men in
any patriarchal society.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
is true that patriarchy does encourage men to be dominant in their
relationships with women and are made to feel ashamed if a woman
dominates them. In the Western world up until the second half of the
20th century if a man failed to dominate his wife he was considered a
wimp and not a ‘real man’.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
Islamic countries it was even worse with the ‘honour’ system. In
this culture if a woman didn’t respect or disobeys her husband or
male relation he was ‘dis-honoured’. The only way he could then
regain his honour was to beat her up or murder her.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
then begs the question; if it is natural for a man to be the dominant
sex, why does it need such an extreme violent custom to enforce it?
If it was a natural behaviour it wouldn’t need to be enforced by
any violent custom. This suggests it is not natural for men to be the
dominant sex.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Because
of this many men are either forced to play the role of a dominant
male even though he doesn’t want to do this. Or the woman’s
dominance is kept a secret and she only dominates him behind closed
doors. Though it seems that women are not into dominance and
submission in the same way men are.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Females
are different because they also connect sex with love because sex
gives them children with whom they have a deep maternal love. This
suggests that men and women are different as men connect sex with
dominance, submission and violence while women connect sex with love.
Though there is a crossover, men can teach women how to connect sex
with sadomasochist desires and women can teach men how to connect sex
with loving relationships.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
problem is that this can also create a misunderstanding between men
and women. This is because many men assume that women who love them
deeply must be masochistic and feel they have the right to abuse
them. This is because masculine men see love as a weakness. They
think, “nice guys come last” and so a loving person must be a
loser. As the result, it is assumed by them that cruel and sadistic
people are strong, while caring and loving people are weak.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
ignores that fact that loving women have to be very strong to be
pregnant, give birth and then devote their lives in caring for
helpless children. If women didn’t have the strength to do this,
the human race would have become extinct long ago.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
masculine attitude affects the whole of patriarchal life. Male rulers
like kings, emperors and presidents are told they have to be cruel
and ruthless to be effective rulers. Generals are told they have to
ruthlessly and use their troops like pawns on a chessboard and not
care about casualties. There are also told to show no mercy to the
enemy if they want to win.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Soldiers
are also considered to be useless if they cannot ruthlessly kill the
enemy. Businessmen are told that they must sack employees when they
are no longer needed. As well as screwing down employees wages as
much as possible, to maximize profits. While politicians are taught
they have to use Machiavellian methods in which to destroy the
opposition and deceive the voters.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">So
in this, “dog eat dog” world, love is clearly a weakness. Many
politicians will only talk about love and compassion to win votes and
forget about it when voted into power. But this is only true while
compassionate women are kept out of power and don’t demonstrate
that caring and loving leaders are possible. This is probably why
patriarchal societies have actively tried to prevented women gaining
political, financial and religious power.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The
patriarchal elite have known they cannot stop women from loving so
they have encouraged women to love others but never themselves. So
women were made to feel guilty about this and encouraged to love
brutal men but never themselves or other women.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">But
unconditional love is a love for yourself as well as everything else,
there is no-limits to unconditional love. When a woman learns total
unconditional love where she can both love herself and love everyone
else, she can be a caring dominant woman.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is in total contrast to what we are told. So the dominance and
submission desires cause men to assume that not only are loving women
masochistic. They also assume that if they love women then they
themselves must be masochistic and must therefore submit to women.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Many
women can love others without the baggage of thinking in terms of
dominance and submission but it is harder for men to do this.
Unfortunately, the femdom scene was created by men and it has been
men who have taught women how to be dominant. So they teach women to
dominate like a man and be cruel and violent.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">We
see this is they way women are dressed in Femdom scene where women
wear black leather which is very masculine dress. They also suppose
to dominate through physical punishment which again is a masculine
way of doing this.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet
over the centuries many wives have found it easy to dominate their
husbands without having to do anything like this. Women do not have
to adopt masculine methods to dominate men. There are many women who
find it easy to dominate men and their secret is to simply tell men
what to do. Once women realise that men are the submissive sex and
will obey orders from those in authority, she finds many men will
obey her.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">This
power can be made more powerful if a woman connects to the belief of
a female God and realise she has a stronger connect to it than most
men. So by this connection she can feel she is a Goddess. This then
gives her a greater authority, which men can tune into and make them
want to serve and obey and worship her.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Many
wives have dominated their husbands throughout the patriarchal age
but don’t go beyond this. This was because in the past women were
only allowed to do menial work and kept away from any high paying
work and so needed a husband’s wage to care for her children. But
today women do not have to be limited by this and can have the same
work as men. Though few women haven’t yet used their Goddess power
to gain both financial and political power for themselves.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
patriarchy has kept women powerless by getting them to worship male
gods and undermining their confidence. It is well known in sports
that one way to win is to demoralize your opponent through verbal
abuse. This is also used in war, business and politics as well as the
sex-war between men and women.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Many
women cannot understand why men say horrible and nasty things to them
and don’t realise it is part of the power-game men play.
Competitive men look for weaknesses in each other and will exploit
any they find. So if this type of man finds he can upset his
girlfriend by any verbal abuse, he will exploit this to his own
advantage. Men also have the power of violence and can use his
greater size and strength.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is because masculine men see relationships as a competitive game of
dominance and submission. This then is a big problem for any women
who think relationships are all about love.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">These
dominance and submission desires in men also are reflected in how men
organize themselves. For a group of men to do a task together they
find it easier to appoint a leader who tells the other men what to
do. For this reason all patriarchal societies are organized in a
hierarchical structure.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
see this in all patriarchal societies were they are ruled by a small
very rich and powerful ruling elite while the majority of people are
poor and powerless. What is also surprising is the small ruling elite
is worshipped by the people.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Logically
this doesn’t make sense, unless it has to do with men’s
masochistic desires to worship winners. The small ruling elite is
seen like the dominant stag or bull as winner and is therefore
worshipped by the losers who are the poor and powerless.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Not
only do men worship the ruling elite they are totally obedient to
them. We see this in warfare where soldiers where obey without
question orders that will put their lives in extreme danger.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Perhaps
it might be that men are the true natural submissive sex because
slavery has been commonplace throughout recorded history. Serfs and
slaves are totally powerless people, they are actually owned by other
people and they have no rights and can be beaten or murdered with
impunity. While the fruits of their labour goes to their owner and
not to them.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Malcolm
X a civil rights movement leader complained that many African
American men had a slave mentality. But this might be true for most
men as we see that slavery, serfdom and the exploitation of working
men has been commonplace throughout history. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
is true that women have also been slaves but women at least have good
reason for this. Women are smaller, weaker and less aggressive than
men so it is a lot harder for women to fight back when slavery is
imposed on them through violence and intimidation.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">If
men are the dominant sex, as claimed by patriarchal propaganda, why
have we had slavery and serfdom? We have had slavery from the time
of the Ancient Greeks and Romans up until the 19th century. So men
cannot be very domineering, if it is so easy for other men to turn
them into slaves and serfs?</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">We
also find the same situation in the military, where soldiers are seen
as being tough macho men. Yet soldier will obey without question,
the most insane orders which will result in their deaths. The
extremes of this are World War One where soldiers climbed out of
their trenches to face near certain death by machine gun fire because
they were ordered to do so. Or in World War Two where Japanese
Kamikaze suicide pilots deliberately crashed their aircraft into
enemy shipping because they were also obeying orders. Patriarchy
will spin this as iron discipline, but it is also extreme submission
to authority.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The
surprising thing is that the military can train men to kill
themselves when ordered to do so, without any intense brainwashing.
All they do is boss them around on a parade ground and they get so
used to obeying orders that they will obey the most insane orders on
the battle field.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">What
is striking about all patriarchal societies is that that they are all
based on a hierarchical structure, where it seems men cannot work
together unless they appoint a leader to tell them what to do. These
leaders then get total obedience to the degree it is very easy for
all patriarchal leaders to abuse their power.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is why in all male dominated societies there is a vast gap between
rich and poor because the ruling elite find it too easy to exploit
the people they rule. This is only possible because men have within
them a very strong instinct to obey orders from anyone in a
leadership position. We have had in the past kings, emperors and
dictators who have been obviously insane and yet still retain power.
So strong is men’s instinct to obey a leader.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
this means that if women want to rule men all they have to do is to
adopt the leadership position. Patriarchy has stopped women doing
this by undermining women’s confidence in themselves. They also
have told women that men are the natural dominant sex and women have
believed this.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
femdom scene does show us that many men have strong desires to
worship and obey women. But unfortunately the men advise women that
they must act and behave like a macho males to successful dominate
men. Yet most women don’t want to do this and this is why there is
a shortage of dominant women in the femdom scene. If men want women
to dominate them they need to try and understand what women want in a
submissive man and serve her in the way she wants to be served.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Although
men play power-games with each other and with women, most men in all
these power-games are losers. We see this in how patriarchal
societies are designed where a small ruling elite have all the power
and wealth while the majority of the people are poor and powerless.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
the average man is far more submissive than he is willing to admit.
Women can take over and dominate men once she realized that men are
the true submissive sex. So she can rule men by acting like a goddess
and men will want to worship her.</span></div>
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p { margin-bottom: 0.25cm; line-height: 115% }</style>williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05285178912635949559noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-669812582750495196.post-81874854279292462542020-04-20T06:24:00.002-07:002023-03-13T03:44:31.705-07:00 Gynocentric Christianity: Chapter Five<br />
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The Feminine One</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">If
there was an ancient religion of the Great Mother what would would be
its teachings? It would be the teachings that God loves us all.
Unfortunately, only a loving father god was acceptable to the ruling
elite of the time. So anything about the Goddess Sophia was cut out
of the gospels which means Jesus couldn’t promote the Goddess of
Love.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet
in-spite of this the ancient teachings of the Great Mother did
survive and we find its teachings in Mysticism, which claims that God
is the One, one mind, one spirit. The problem with this is that the
One cannot be masculine as it is all about individuality, separation
and conflict. Whereas the feminine is about love and harmony so the
One has to be feminine in nature.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">There
used to be idea of Oneness in Feminism when they put forward the
slogan, “the sisterhood is powerful”. But this was rejected after
awhile as a powerful sisterhood goes against the Feminist ideal of
equality with men. </span>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The
bonobo ape is able to make the whole idea of a powerful sisterhood
work and it allows bonobo females dominate the larger bonobo males.
Unlike their close cousin the chimpanzees where the female didn’t
create a powerful sisterhood and so every individual female chimp is
at the mercy of the larger males. </span>
</div>
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<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
we all come from the One and the One is female. We were all one mind,
one spirit and lived in perfect love and harmony. Unfortunately that
total perfection created stagnation. In a total harmonious world
there was no reason or motivation to change anything. So there came a
desire from the One to experience life outside of itself, to
experience individually and relationships.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">To
do this, She created a material universe and within it created
bodies, so parts of the One could inhabit these bodies and experience
the illusion of being separate from the One. This gave the One, a
taste of what it is like to be separate but then it went further and
created beings that had no memory of being part of the One.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Because
of this, these beings began to experience loneliness, fear and
suffering in this world of separation. For this reason they quickly
had a powerful desire to return to the One. So there first
exploration in the world of separation was brief.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet,
the One wanted to learn more about the world of separation and
created a being that revelled in a separate world and that was how
the masculine was created.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
masculine was able to live outside of the One because it was created
to enjoyed competition. Someone who enjoys competing, fighting and
conflict is a person that thinks it doesn’t need the One. But this
competitive instinct also led to hatred, violence and suffering, so
that even very macho men seek relief from this, by searching for the
One within women. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
wasn’t a too much a problem in animals but became a real problem in
an intelligent creature like a human being. As men found that could
make weapons like spears and clubs in which to attack each other,
leading to murder, wars and genocide.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">For
this reason the One created men to want to worship and obey women.
This gave women power over men so they could restrain their violent
instincts. This is because women have a stronger connection the
all-powerful One and could easy call on her power and wisdom when it
was needed.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Unfortunately,
the human male is an intelligent creature and because of his
competitive instincts began to plot and scheme for ways of competing
against women for power. So some men would be attempting to undermine
women’s confidence or try to manipulate and deceive women.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">These
efforts never worked while women remained in contact with the
limitless wisdom and power of the Feminine One, but then some men
found a way to break this connection.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: medium;"> At
the time, people worshipped the Great Mother who gave birth to the
world. So men suggested to women that it was unfair that people only
worshipped a Female deity and they should worship a male deity as
well. Some women did think this was fair and reasonable and went
along with it.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
in their religion the Great Mother had a son, (similar to the images
of the Virgin Mary and Jesus or Isis and Horus). Then later people
began to worship female and male deities as brother and sister or
male and female lovers.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">At
first this didn’t seem to be a problem, but the worship of a male
god caused problems for women trying to connect to the Feminine One.
The feminine is complete Oneness, love and harmony. The masculine is
separation, loneliness, conflict, fear and hatred. So the vibrations
are totally different, making it more difficult to connect to the
Feminine One, when praying to male deity alongside a female deity.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
over time in this new religion women found it harder to connect to
the Feminine One and they slowly lost their power. Because of this
men no longer worshipped them as goddesses and they become equal in
status to men.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
competitive instincts in some men drove them to wanting more power so
the male deities became more important than the female deities. This
then made contact with the Feminine One even more difficult for women
and they found themselves at the mercy of male aggression and
violence and the patriarchal age was born.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Finally,
the new patriarchal rulers decided that there was only one god and he
was male. Women then lost all their connection to the Feminine One
and became the slaves of men.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is a disaster for both sexes because although women have suffered
under patriarchal rule, so has men. Because without women’s control
and guidance man is in danger of destroying himself and the world he
lives in.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">As
the male is separated from the One, he can explore what it is like to
be individual and separate. But when he breaks away from the control
of the female he then goes into a spiral of loneliness, fear,
conflict, hatred, violence, war, chaos and destruction. Unfortunately
this is exactly what has happened over the last 5,000 years.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">This
then is the dance of the female and male. The female is forever
taking us back to the One to experience total love and harmony. The
male is attempting to take us further away from the One into conflict
and chaos. In this dance men learn from women about love, compassion
and harmony while women learn from men aggression, competitiveness
and hatred.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">A
world totally dominated by men will quickly destroy itself, as men
will continually fight each other. While a world dominated by women
will return us back to the One of total love and harmony. So can we
find a way to return to the One through a matriarchal religion?</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Religion
is about our connection to God as well as teachings to make our lives
better for us all. But unfortunately, patriarchal religions fail to
do this. Most people who pray to God fail to find any connection to
the One, while the teachings don’t seem to make life better for us.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
problem is that we worship male gods and this is the main reason why
religions fail to deliver on what they promise. Male gods are
masculine and the masculine is all about aggression and competition.
So for this reason it’s not surprising to find male dominated
religions and religious sect fighting each other.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Male
gods are not only aggressive but intolerant as well, as people are
threatened with, ‘hellfire and damnation’, when they die if they
fail to follow the teachings of the male priesthood. So it is no
wonder people find it hard to connect to a judgmental and punitive
god like this.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Gods
like this give religion a bad name and for this reason some religions
have attempted to show god in a better light. We find this in the
Christian teachings of Jesus in the New Testament where he promoted
the idea of loving Father God. This has been only partly successful
as many Christians still prefer the judgmental God of the Old
Testament.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Buddhism
has also attempted to give more compassionate teachings and Buddhists
are encouraged to connect to Nirvana through meditation.
Unfortunately only a minority of people are willing to spend years of
meditation to do this.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
what would it be like to worship God as a female and have an
exclusive female priesthood? It would be a religion based on the
feminine rather than masculine principles. So what difference would
this make?</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
fact is that the One can only be feminine as She is total love and
harmony. For this reason the One can never be masculine as he is all
about individualism, competition, aggression and conflict.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
can see how this plays out in the animal world. Male animals like
stags, bulls, rams and lions fight each other for dominance and
access to females. Then when the strongest male animal has
impregnated the females, the females give birth and devoted their
time caring for their young.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
males have competitive and aggressive instincts while females have
maternal and nurturing instincts. These is why men like watching and
playing sports and compete with each other in business and politics
and why male dominated countries and religions fight wars.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Most
women on the other hand have desires to give birth to children and
devote their lives to caring for them. Women not only want to care
for their own children but will care for other people’s children as
well as the sick, the elderly, animals and even men.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
if we were to worship God as a Woman we would expect her to be
nurturing and love us all unconditionally. So this would be a deity
we would find easy to connect to as we know she wouldn’t judge,
condemn or punish us. The teachings of a maternal Mother God would
also be about love which would encourage us to love each other and
make our world a better place.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
can only return to the love and harmony of the One when women
reconnect to Her and become, once again, one with Her unlimited power
and wisdom. This will allow men to once again to serve and worship
women as goddesses. </span>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Venus of Willendorf</td></tr>
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<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The Ancient Great Mother</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
what do these teachings mean in our present day society of the 21th
century? We live in a world that has been dominated by the men for
the last 5,000 years. The result has been a world of conflict,
oppression, war, genocide and chaos. We are now in danger of
destroying ourselves with destructive weapons like nuclear bombs as
well as widespread pollution.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
situation is now becoming so dangerous that the One is encouraging
women to regain power so we can return to the protection of the One.
Unfortunately, too many women are learning how to gain power by
learning from men. But men can only teach women how to be more
aggressive and competitive. Teachings like this only take us all
further away from the One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">An
example of this would be politics where women politicians are taught
by men to be as deceptive, corrupt and competitive as male
politicians. The result has been that when female politicians act and
behave like men, they can only mimic what men do and are not leading
us back to the One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Although
as more women that come into positions of power the more confident
women will eventually become in being themselves and no longer have
to pretend to be men. When they finally do this they can start to
lead humanity back to the One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">About
5,000 years ago men took control of our world and they were able to
do this when women listened to deceitful men who encouraged women to
break their connection to the One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
there was a time in the past when women ruled the world and
patriarchy has since tried to destroy all knowledge and evidence of
this. So how could women rule the world when men are physically
bigger and stronger as well as being more competitive and aggressive
than women?</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">When
women ruled the world there was a religion where people worshipped
the Great Mother who gave birth to our world. The Great Mother is of
course the One. She is all-that-there-is. It was through this
religion that women connected to the One as the Great Mother.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Women
then were representatives of the Great Mother in this world and so
all women were worshipped by men as goddesses. So men have a natural
desire to worship women and this desire becomes far stronger when
women find ways to connect to the One. This means, the more women are
able to once again connect themselves to the One the more men will
want to worship and obey them.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
how did women lose the connection to the Great Mother? Although the
One had unlimited wisdom and intelligence it didn’t know or
understand the world of separation. It was only men who knew and
understood this world. The One couldn’t comprehend the world of
lies, deception and trickery created by men. So didn’t know what to
do when these things were used against women.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Also
the One gives us all unconditional love and this includes love for
the worse type of man you can possibly imagine. For this reason the
One never took sides when ambitious men set out to destroy the power
of women. When ambitious men told women that it was unfair that
people only worshipped a female deity and they should be allowed to
worship a male god as well.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Women
allowed this to happen, and so men were allowed to form their own
priesthood and worship male gods. In the spirit of fairness women
began to worship these male gods as well and in the process lost
their power. This was because these male gods represent separation
and conflict and took women away from the Oneness of the Great
Mother.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
the male priests began to teach and practice masculine teachings
which were about aggression, competitiveness and hatred. They also
taught women about sacrificial love which is close to women’s
maternal love for their children. So the priests taught women that
maternal love and sacrificial love where the same thing.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
seems to be true because a mother will sacrifice herself for her
child. but for a mother to be able to care for her child she has to
ensure she is strong enough to do this. So the sacrificial aspect of
this is limited because if a mother sacrifices herself completely,
she can become so mentally or physically weak, she cannot properly
care for or protect her child.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
women who listened to the priests began to feel guilty about putting
any of her own needs before the child and the priests sensing a
weakness, encouraged this feelings of guilt even more. So in the end
women began to feel guilty about loving herself in any situation and
as the result she began to lose her connection to the One and was no
longer in tune with her Goddess power.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
One has never demanded sacrificial love, the One is an all
encompassing love for everything and that includes our love for
ourselves. The male priests in the spirit of separation encouraged
the split between our love for ourselves and others. They were
encouraged to do this when they saw it broke women’s connection to
the One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
priests also encouraged men to be selfish when dealing with women but
unselfish when supporting the power of the new patriarchal rulers.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Through
this, these men were able to break away from the control of the
women. They quickly created a world of chaos and conflict and when
they were challenged about this they defended their power through
deception and violence.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
the holy women of the Great Mother religion then found themselves in
conflict with male dominated religions. The women who returned to the
original teaching of the Great Mother saved themselves but the women
who tried to compete with men lost out.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Some
women went as far as becoming Amazons and fighting men on the
battle-field. But men have all the physical advantages in warfare and
women lost when attempting this. This means that when women try to
act and behave like men, they find they are at a big disadvantage.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Another
problem for women is that men have what Sigmund Freud called the
Madonna–whore complex. The famous psychologist points out that men
either worship women as Goddesses, or treat them as abused slaves.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Men
are like this is other ways when they say, “you’re either for us
or against us.” It is there competitive instincts that make it hard
for them the take the moderate line in anything. As they divide the
world up into winners and losers. So men have a similar attitude
about women.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
seems men had not problems in worshipping women as Goddesses but when
patriarchy undermined this, men went to the opposite extreme and
treated women as abused slaves. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">People
can only tune into the power of the One through love because
unconditional love and Oneness are the same thing. Once women start
to compete against men then they lose that sense of Oneness. The One
possess all the wisdom, intelligence and power of the whole universe,
so women become all-powerful when they make that connection.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Masculine
power on the other hand is the power of conflict. Men can become
extremely powerful when they are totally ruthless, brutal and
deceitful but this power if unchecked can only destroy itself. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Patriarchal
rulers have gained power and kept it by knowing how to gain power
over other men. The patriarchal age hasn’t benefited most men as it
paradoxically turned the majority into slaves, serfs and peasants.
The ruling elite of the patriarchal world found that all men are very
obedient to anyone who presents themselves as figures of authority
and exploited this to the full.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
instead of worshipping women as Goddesses, men found themselves
worshipping the male ruling elite who treated them like slaves. In
the past male rulers set themselves up as gods and expected the
people to worship them as such.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Later
when people saw through this deception the rulers then claimed they
had the, “divine right of kings,” and that it was ‘God’s
will’ that they are rulers. Yet, even today when people are aware
that their rulers are not gods or divine-rulers, common people will
still worship those who have political and financial power.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Because
of this the vast gap between rich and poor is as bad as it ever has
been, because most men will meekly obey anyone in position of
authority.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Men
obedience to authority is clearly shown in war. We tend to think
solders as tough macho men but the best soldiers are so passive they
will obey the most insane orders without question. An example of this
is World War One when soldiers of all countries would come out of the
trenches to be mowed down by machine gun fire because they were
ordered to do this. The military will spin this as iron discipline,
but it is also extreme submission to authority.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
Japanese in World War Two went a step further and used Kamikaze
suicide pilots to deliberately crash their aircraft into enemy
shipping because they were also obeying orders. They weren’t
volunteers, they were simply ordered to do this and none refused to
obey.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
it means that women do not have to compete with men for power, all
they have to do is present themselves as Goddesses and men will obey
them. Perhaps we can learn something about this from the Femdom
scene.</span></div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Goddess Pandora</td></tr>
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<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The Yin and Yang</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
how do women connect to the One? The most obvious way is to stop
worshipping male gods and then to worship a female deity as the
creator of our world.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">There
are many women who are atheists and point out that scientists believe
that the universe was created in a ‘big-bang’. This is still only
a theory and you still have the problem of what happened before the
‘big-bang’ or how can a universe explode out of nothing? Not all
scientists agree with the big-bang theory anyway. But even if it is
true this may be the way the Great Mother gave birth to the physical
universe.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Though
it is interesting that when science began to make its mark in the
17th century and some people stopped worshipping male gods. Society
since then has changed for the better and has become more equal
allowing women to become more empowered. This suggests that not
worshipping any male god is better for us all. Though worshipping a
female deity will be even better.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">When
a woman worships a female deity she is worshipping herself. So the
practice of doing this will of course give her far more confidence
and self-esteem. But a female deity has a big advantage over any
male deity because we know that She will gives us all, her children,
unconditional love.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Jesus
in the New Testament attempted to promote the idea of a loving Father
God but somehow it never really caught on. Many Christians still
prefer the judgmental and punitive god of the Old Testament.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
Pre-Christian times we use to have Goddesses of love like Aphrodite
and Venus and this makes sense because women are naturally loving and
nurturing people. In much the same way it is natural to have a male
god of war.</span><br />
<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Aphrodite</td></tr>
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<span style="font-size: medium;"> The
psychological difference in this is immense. It is terrible when
people believe they were created by a judgemental and punitive male
god. It is no-wonder Christians once called themselves, “god-fearing
people”. Because they were taught that when they die they would
suffer, hell-fire and damnation for an eternity if they weren’t
‘good’. Negative beliefs like this were a great benefit for the
priests, as they could frighten the people into submission, but
dreadful for anyone who believed them.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
clearly it must have been a big relief to many people when they were
told by scientists there is no god. But it would be even better to
know that our creator is female and loves us all unconditionally. The
problem with this, is as atheist we tell us, if we were created by a
loving deity then why are we living in a world of suffering? This is
why they claim that we weren’t created by a god.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
if we follow this logic through, we either didn’t have a creator
and so we all were created by accident. Or we were created by a very
imperfect god who doesn’t really care about us because he has made
no attempt to solve the problem of suffering.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet
the argument whether there is a god or no-god doesn’t solve the
problem for why there is suffering in the world in the first place.
Even if we accept that life and the universe was created by chance.
It doesn’t answer the problem; why do people have to suffer? If we
live in a meaningless and pointless world, as claimed by atheists,
why should anything we do matter? Why should we care if we live or
die? If our lives are the only life we have, then what makes us want
to continue to live in a world of suffering?</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
if there is no supreme creator and that the only intelligent life in
the universe is human beings, what is the point of it all? It would
make some sense if we all were living happy and fulfilled lives. Yet
it seems most of us claim that we don’t live happy lives. So if the
gift of life only makes us miserable then where does that leave us?
Logically, if we don’t live happy lives then the best thing we can
all do is to commit suicide. Because what is the point of living a
life if you are not happy?</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Other
people ask the question if there is a loving God why doesn’t he
take out all the bad guys and leave the rest of us in peace. So why
doesn’t God put the world to right and create a perfect world? The
problem with this is that a perfect world might be boring.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">A
lot of us would deny this, but we give ourselves away by what we
think is ‘entertainment’ in books or films. If an author wrote a
story about intelligent and sensible people who lived lives of love
and harmony, very few people will want to read it. On the other hand
write a story about a sadistic serial killer and it can become a
best-seller.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">As
Shakespeare said, “All the world's a stage, And all the men and
women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances.”</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
world is nothing more than a drama factory. We come to this planet to
experience the drama of life. Unfortunately, we can get so caught up
in it, that we can be locked into a life of fear and suffering.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
masculine does give us all the drama we want, as it creates conflict
and violence. But left unchecked it also gives us war, genocide and
grinding poverty. Also, with modern technology men are in danger of
destroying our world.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is why we need the feminine to dominate and control the masculine.
Yes we want to experience the drama of life and yes even experience
suffering but not unrelenting misery and suffering. The more men
dominate our world the worse it is going to get. We need the contrast
of love and harmony with the drama of masculine conflict.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Men
like to play sports like boxing, rugby, ice-hockey and gridiron where
they can badly injure each other. But when the match is finished, the
players shake hands and go on to live normal lives. So they
experienced real pain and suffering while the match is being played,
but it doesn’t last very long.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is what we want, to control the dramas we created so it doesn’t get
so bad we become depressed and want to commit suicide. Women are the
ones who can do this, providing they are the dominant sex. Women of
course have different drama as we see in romantic fiction and the
drama of giving birth and bring up children.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">I
believe many people over the ages have asked these same questions and
perhaps from these questions, religions were created. Within all
religions there is a mystic tradition so what does mysticism say
about the problem of suffering? Unlike the religions these mystic
traditions seem to agree on one thing: All is One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">If
all is One, then we can see a big problem with this: Because somehow
this is not what we experience in real life. We all live in
different bodies and are somehow dissimilar from each other
physically, mentally and emotionally. It is these differences that
seem to cause great conflict. The mystics answer this by saying that
our separation from each other is an illusion. We only think we are
separate but in reality we are all one. They go even further than
this; and say that we are God. We are not separate from God as the
whole of life and the universe is one mind, one spirit.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
creates another problem: How are we able to be separate and yet be
at One at the same time? If we are all one; then why do we have an
illusion that we are separate? This is where mysticism becomes very
difficult for many people.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">If
all of life and the universe is One then how does the One know
itself? To put it another way: If you were the only creature living
on a desert island; what would you do with yourself? Even if you had
a well made home and found food easy to find, most people would find
life difficult without a companion of some kind. In modern prisons
one of the hardest punishments they can give prisoner is to send them
into solitary confinement.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is true of human beings but is this true for the One? The answer is
that this must be true because why have we come to this world to live
in a world of separation? What we can be sure of is that a person
living on their own, without any interaction with others, will
stagnate. The same may be true of the One. Because even with our
limited understanding it becomes obvious to us that if we had
perfection, like in the Buddhist concept of Nirvana, we would also
stagnation. Because once there is perfection there is no movement
because, how can you go beyond perfection?</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
we have here a paradox: We once lived in a state of oneness and
perfection. Yet we deliberately divided ourselves up to live in a
world of separation, and from this separation has come suffering. If
this is true then we have a stark choice. We can live in oneness and
perfection but we also will live in a world where nothing much is
happening. Or we can live in a world of separation and relationships
but from this comes suffering.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet
if God is the sum total of all intelligent life in the universe then
perhaps there is a way around this. This is for us to be One but live
in the illusion of separation. But then we need a way to live
together as individuals without conflict and suffering. This is
probably why we have two sexes, the female sex retains its contact
with the One and the male sex goes off to explore the world of
separation. Unfortunately, this only works while the female is the
dominant sex and so can restrain and control the male.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
to ensure that women are the dominant sex, men were created with a
desire to worship and obey women. So why is that not happening? The
answer is that men were also given a brain and some smart men found
ways to exploit men’s instinct for obedience, as well as women’s
complacency, for their own ends.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">When
women in the past had men totally under their control but they became
careless. Men would always obey them and so they assumed that men
would always do that. This complacency was then utilized by ambitious
men to gain power for themselves.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
was easy for these men to talk to women about fairness and telling
women they should have equal rights and so they should worship both
male and female deities. Women went along with this because they
didn’t see any danger in doing this.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Ancient
history showed that the Great Mother then had a son whom the people
worshipped. Then the son later became the brother or lover of the
Great Mother. Then later on they got married and male god took over
the supreme position and then finally female deities were suppressed
completely and we now only worship male gods.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
same thing happened with the priesthood. At first there were only
holy women who promoted the worship of the Great Mother. Then there
came priests and priestesses who worshipped both gods and goddesses.
It seems the early priests dressed up as women and even castrated
themselves to be like women. Then the priests began to take over the
dominant role until finally all priestesses were banned.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
clever thing these early priests did is that by dressing up women
they were able to make men obey them. Then they exploited this
obedience to indoctrinate men into obeying them and denigrated women
so men lost respect for them.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Once
men were convinced by the male priests to no longer respect or obey
women then women lost their power and the priests took control. This
didn’t happen overnight as women did fight back and tried to return
things to what they once were but the priests encouraged men to use
violence on women, who had no answer to this.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">What
is very clear from all this, is that when we worship the feminine and
allow women to rule our world we return to love, harmony, joy but
stagnation. When we worship the masculine and allow men to rule our
world we then experience conflict, suffering and chaos but it gives
us relationships and movement.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
how can the masculine and feminine work together for the good of us
all? It can only work with women in charge but also allowing men to
be men and not try to turn them into women.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
is like playing a sporting game. If the idea of the game is to put a
ball into a goal each side of the pitch. But if there were no rules
or referee, the game would just become a brawl and men would injure
and even kill each other. So we had to make rules and have a referee
to enforce the rules then a game can be played without the opposing
teams badly injuring each other. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
has been the problem with the whole patriarchal age. Men have ruled
our world without a referee or set of rules and the result has been a
shambles where millions of people have been killed or injured and we
have widespread poverty and suffering. Also, with modern technology
we are in danger of destroying ourselves.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
obvious solution is for women to rule the world. Women are far less
likely to want to want to star wars, commit genocide or create
poverty. Providing that these women act and behave like caring women
and do not learn from men, to be selfish rulers. </span>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The Feminine One</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">In
our patriarchal world we are told, love in a weakness. But love is
the strongest force in the universe because it is the power of the
One. But the love of the One is total unconditional l love, She loves
everyone and everything. Likewise for us to tune this omnipresent
love we will have the same love for ourselves, as our love for
everyone else. As Jesus said in the Bible.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
“<span style="font-size: medium;">You
shall love your neighbour as yourself. There is no other commandment
greater than these.” Mark 12:31.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Jesus
also said, “God is One and there is no other but Him.” Mark
12:32.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">But
a male God cannot be the One, the One is feminine by nature and this
was the problem Jesus had in preaching in a patriarchal society where
a female god would be unacceptable. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
how do we access this power? We do it through the power of our
desires and total faith in the power of the feminine One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Because
the One is feminine She loves us all and wants to give us everything
we desire. So when we desire anything She will grant it to us. But if
that is correct why aren’t we then getting everything we want? </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
can only access the power of the One by not interfering with what She
is attempting to give us. She has given us all the power of freewill
and she will never interfere with our freewill when we use it but we
use it all the time by every thought we think.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
it means that once we have a desire for anything we have to allow the
One to grant it to us, without interference. Unfortunately, this is
what we do all the time, because we do not know about power of the
Great Mother.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Let
us say we cannot pay our rent, so we have a powerful desire to have
the money to do this. The One will then use Her limitless power give
this to us. But with that desire comes all our thoughts about how we
can obtain this money. So we might think about getting another job or
winning the lottery or we might give up in despair and prepare
ourselves to be homeless. All these thoughts block off the power of
the One because She cannot override our freewill which is expressed
through every though all our thoughts. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
for us to use the power of the One, we have to use ONLY Her power and
not interfere with it.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
if we have any desire then we have to acknowledge we have it but only
focus on that desire and nothing else. Once we start to look for ways
to achieve our desires in the material world, then we assert our
freewill and take control. Then the One backs off because She will
never interfere, once we do this.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
the power of the One is totally feminine She will never aggressively
assert Herself and override our freewill. But because She is the One,
Her power is unlimited, omnipresent and omnipotent, and so She has
the power of miracles. This means we have to allow Her to use her
unlimited power and not interfere with our puny limited power.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Now
this is spoken about in many patriarchal religions but they call it
the power of faith. So they claim that if you have faith and believe
it enough, God will grant it to you. Unfortunately, this is a bit
difficult if you believe God is a judgmental and punitive male.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">If
you believe God will judge and punish you for your ‘sins’ and
then told that we are all sinners, then it is tough to try and
imagine he will grant you whatever you want. This is why worshipping
male gods make in hard to believe in god’s love or even that he is
on your side.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Whereas
we see god as the feminine One who loves us all unconditionally then
there is no problem with this. This is why when people worshipped the
Great Mother then it was easy from them to access the feminine One
and have whatever they wanted. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">A
big problem for most people is that masculine power and feminine
power are totally different. This is the problem the femdom people
have, they yearn for women to rule our world but they only know about
masculine power. So they assume that women have to be like men and
use aggression, violence, intimidation and deception to gain power.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Feminists
also make the same mistake and again believe that women have to use
masculine methods in which to empower themselves. Not realizing that
feminine power is totally different to masculine power. Basically
feminine power is spiritual power and can only be accessed through
love and harmony which will tune women to the all-powerful One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Another
way patriarchal religions attempt to access the One is through
meditation and this does work because it turns off our everyday
thinking. But meditation can be made far more powerful when we think
about the universal love and harmony of the feminine One.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Even
if you are not into faith, mediation or prayer to any deity, we can
get what we want, by only focusing on our desires and nothing else.
Trying to think of ways to get something we want, that we think is
impossible, is a sure way to get us into a negative frame of mind. So
in theory just focusing on what we want, only, will make it more
likely we can manifest it. But this would be a lot easer if we had
faith that a loving deity will give it to us.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
is why women are far more powerful than men, if they tune into the
power of the One as love and Oneness are the same thing. Men find it
harder to access the One as the masculine is rooted in the material
world of separation and conflict.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Conclusion</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
teachings of Jesus created one of the largest religions in the world
but he is totally different to most normal men. Some Christians find
him an embarrassment because he was so, “meek and mild” with
paradoxical teachings like, “the meek shall inherit the Earth”.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
problem about Jesus is that although he founded a patriarchal
religion his teachings were mostly feminine. This is in total
contrast of the macho teachings of the Old Testament.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">One
of the unique features of Jesus is his healing, which you don’t get
in any other religion that has survived to the present day. Many
people assumed that he was able to heal because he was, ‘the son of
God’ but he made no such claims.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">When
he healed people he said to them, “your faith has healed you”. So
he gave the credit to the person he healed and not himself. So why
was this? This is because the feminine One has given us all the gift
of freewill. So Jesus could never heal a person against their
freewill.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Now,
this might seem a paradox because surely all ill people want to be
healed and this is true. But you need faith to be ill in the same way
you need faith to be healed. Any person who is ill and has a strong
belief they can never be cured and will stay ill because of that
belief. So a healer like Jesus has to undermine this belief in
illness, before the ill person can be healed.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Modern
doctors know about this because modern scientific medicine has a real
problem with what they call, “the placebo effect.” It is known
that dummy pills with no medicine in them can heal people. Sometimes
in scientific trials placebo pills do a better job in healing people
than real medicine. So dummy pills can heal because they can give a
person hope they can be healed and sometimes this is enough to start
the healing process. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
then demonstrates the power of the power of the Feminine One. She is
always there to give us healing but we can block Her off through our
freewill which we express through our beliefs. But something like a
placebo pill can undermine our belief in our illness and allow the
Feminine One to give us what we want. </span>
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Beliefs
are no more than a thought we kept on thinking. So our habitual
thoughts will always override any thoughts we think for a short time.
This is why in many positive thinking books they recommend
affirmations. As repeating the same thought over and over again can
create a new habitual thought that can turn into a belief.</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">But
Jesus taught more than just faith and belief, he also taught love,
compassion and forgiveness. It was through this he was able to tune
into the Feminine One. The more we can bring love and harmony to our
thoughts the easier it is to do this.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
we can see that his teachings are the exact opposite to the
patriarchal world he lived in. Yet it was through his ability have
unconditional love for everyone and everything, he was able to
perform miracles.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">As
we all know, Jesus died on the cross and in this he followed a
tradition of sacrificial/saviour gods like Osiris, Orpheus, Dionysus,
Bacchus, Mithras, Odin, Bader and Loki. All of them were either
killed or sacrificed themselves, to save mankind.</span><br />
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</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Now
this could makes sense, because the human race would be far better
off if men sacrificed themselves to women and allowed them to rule
the world. But the Christian Church had another interpretation that
that was Jesus sacrificed himself to appease an angry Father God.
This is in spite of Jesus teaching that the Father God was a god of
love. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">A
male god may demand sacrifice but the loving feminine deity would
never demand this. So it is of interest that in some of the Gnostic
Bibles Jesus talks about Sophia, the ancient Jewish Goddess of wisdom
whom he calls in the Gnotic Bible “Sophia of Jesus Christ”, the
Mother of the Universe.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
what is the sacrifice of the saviour gods, including Jesus, all
about? It is about the salvation of men. The masculine can only
survive if it surrenders to the feminine.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">As
mentioned before left to its own devices the masculine will end up
destroying itself so it can only save itself by returning to the
feminine One and surrendering to Her. Many men instinctively realise
this and try to do this, but this is difficult for men living in a
patriarchal society.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">We
see this in the femdom scene where men surrender to women only as a
symbolic surrender in fantasy play. So he will worship a dominatrix
and pay her to whip him but still retain control of what is happening
by ‘topping from the bottom’.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
it is obvious these men are only ‘dipping their toes in the water’
and are afraid to surrender to women completely and perhaps for a
very good reason. Any man of reasonable intelligence knows that men
have been extremely cruel to women for thousands of years and still
treat them badly. So men knowing this would fear women’s vengeance.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">There
are a lot of women who are very angry with men and will be cruel to
any man who surrenders to her. So this becomes a barrier for many men
unless they are extremely masochistic. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">This
was probably even worse in the time of Jesus where women suffering
under extreme patriarchal societies and so would be very angry with
men. This was seen nearly two thousand years later when the British
invaded Afghanistan in the 19th century, as mentioned in a poem by
Rudyard Kipling called “The Young British Soldier”.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">When
you're wounded and left on Afghanistan's plains,</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">And
the women come out to cut up what remains,</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Jest
roll to your rifle and blow out your brains</span></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">An'
go to your Gawd like a soldier.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
seems that Afghanistan women then would torture to death any wounded
British soldier they found. This is the exact opposite to normal
female behaviour who would normally want to care for anyone they
found wounded. This shows how much these women had learnt to hated
men and so had their vengeance on any helpless men they found.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">More
than this, any man who attempted to surrender to women would be
mocked and condemned by other men. Even in recent times a men who
worship women are ridiculed for being a wimps and are told they are
not ‘real man’. In the Islamic world it is even worse because if
a woman disobeys a man he is then ‘dishonoured’ and has to beat
her up or even murder her to regain his ‘honour’. So a man dare
not worship any women for this reason. (Though there is Femdom in
Islamic countries but obviously it is kept secret).</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
for men to surrender to women has been a big deal throughout the
patriarchal age. So the whole drama of Jesus being betrayed,
condemned, ridiculed, tortured, whipped and finally crucified would
be the fate of any man who attempted to surrender to women in a
strict patriarchal society.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet
in spite of all these barriers, many men have over the centuries,
surrendered to women, showing how powerful is men’s desires to do
this. This has resulted in patriarchy being slowly undermined
throughout the Western world in the last few centuries.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
first book published on Femdom was called,”Venus In Furs” by
Leopold von Sacher-Masoch in the 19th century. He could get away with
writing about this subject, at that time because he was a wealthy
nobleman. This allowed other people to write on the same subject in
the 20th century. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">It
is of interest that this has happened mostly in Christian countries
so perhaps the teachings of Jesus and the drama of his sacrifice of
has had an effect on men.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Learning
sacrificial love is beneficial to men because it is similar to
maternal love that women express when they have children. For this
reason women don’t have to learn about sacrificial love but need to
learn more about how to love themselves.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Sacrificial
love seems to demand that we love others by neglecting or even hating
ourselves. So in its extreme form it becomes masochistic love when a
person feels they have to put the needs of others before themselves.
So it may seem they hate themselves.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Unfortunately
many people learn to love themselves by hating others. But if some
people love others must they neglect or even hate yourself? Is it
possible to love ourselves and everyone else at the same time?</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Patriarchal
religions have encouraged women to be sacrificial and women have gone
along with this because it is similar to maternal love. As the result
many women have felt guilty about demanding anything for themselves.</span></div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Yet
a mother that is too sacrificial cannot care for her children
properly. This is because by becoming too sacrificial and putting the
needs of others before herself a woman can become powerless. This
then means a powerless woman cannot protect her children. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
the best way a mother can protect her children is to love herself and
have a man she can control and dominate. More than that, women as a
whole are better able to protect their children if the country they
live in is ruled by women. As a matriarchal government will put the
needs of children before anything else. </span>
</div>
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<br /></div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">So
it mean it is possible for us to live in a loving and caring world if
we allow women to take control of our governments and religions. </span>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Goddess Lilith<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Summing Up</span></div>
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<br /></div>
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J<span style="font-size: medium;">esus
is seen as ‘meek and mild’ and taught to, “turn the other
cheek”. For this reason, if every man followed the teachings of
Jesus it would be a world without conflict, fear and hatred. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Patriarchy
teaches men to, “stand up for themselves,” and be aggressive,
competitive and even violent. This is why we live in a world of
endless conflict, war and hatred. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Femdom
men are stigmatized for being meek for allowing women to dominate
them. Yet, if all men were like this, we would live in a far more
caring and loving world. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Both
Femdom men and women are scorned for being masochistic. Yet surely
masochism is just another name for unconditional love? </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Soldiers
are considered to be extremely macho men. Yet soldiers are so
obedient they will obey orders, that will result in their deaths.
This suggests these macho soldiers are extremely passive and even
masochistic, when obeying these orders.</span></div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
power of patriarchy comes from the fact that men will blindly obey
anyone in authority over them. This is why it is possible for a small
wealthy 1% to be extremely rich and powerful, while the vast majority
of men are poor and powerless. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The
feminine can unite through unconditional love. The masculine is not
loving and can only unite under the rule of a forceful leader. So
patriarchy happens when men rule other men, while matriarchy happens
when women rule men. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Patriarchy
rule through force, control, intimidation, violence, deception and
indoctrination. Matriarchy will rule through love, compassion and
nurturing. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
sacrifice of, Jesus on the cross, is a popular drama because men see
themselves in his very passive behaviour. While women see a man whom
they would love to live with.</span></div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Femininity
is all about maternal and nurturing love, so a world rule by women
will be a loving and caring world.</span></div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">Masculinity
is all about aggression, competition, conflict, violence and war.
This is why a world ruled by men is in constant discord and chaos. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Mystics
tell us that God is One mind, One spirit. Oneness comes from
unconditional love which is what mothers give to their children. For
this reason, God is Female.</span></div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">God
is One mind, One spirit and so can never be male because masculinity
is all about competition, aggression, conflict, violence and chaos.
So Oneness can never be achieved by a male god. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">Patriarchy
tells us that loving people like women are weak. Yet love is the
strongest power in the universe because unconditioned love creates
Oneness and the One is all powerful, omnipresent and omnipotent.</span></div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
Sisterhood is powerful, but the Sisterhood can only be powerful when
women love each other in the same way they love children, animals and
men.</span></div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The
feminine takes us towards love, harmony and Oneness. The masculine
takes us towards, individuality, separation, loneliness, fear,
conflict, hatred, violence, suffering, chaos and destruction. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The
human race lost its contact with the Infinite One, when it worshipped
male gods because the masculine can never be One mind, One spirit. So
we can regain our contact with the Infinite One when we once again
worship loving female gods who are the embodiment of Oneness. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">When
a man worships a loving woman, he is worshipping the Infinite One as
loving women are the embodiment of One in this world.</span></div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">When
a woman allows herself to communicate with the Feminine One through
prayer or meditation. She becomes in-tune with the most powerful
force in the Universe. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
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<span style="font-size: medium;">The
Feminine One loves us all unconditionally, without exception. As
Jesus said, “for (S)he maketh the sun to rise on the evil and on
the good, and sendeth the rain on the just and on the unjust.”
Matthew 5:45.</span></div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
masculine is not completely useless, because it brings about change,
contrast, evolution and drama to our world. But a world ruled by
masculine men will eventually destroy itself. This is why the
masculine has to be controlled and ruled by the feminine, to prevent
this happening. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
feminine likes loving sex because it takes the couple back into
Oneness. The masculine likes mechanical sex based of force,
intimation, bribery, humiliation, dominance and submission to try and
prevent the feelings of Oneness. </span>
</div>
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<br />
</div>
<div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: medium;">The
masculine wants and needs love, but only love it can control. But
love is uncontrollable and takes us back to the Feminine One. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "new times"; font-size: large;"> <span style="font-size: xx-small;">References</span></span></div>
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Feminism is the feminine vision of what female empowerment
means to women, while femdom is the masculine version of this. Together these
two concepts could create matriarchy but there is such a vast difference
between these two concepts that the gulf between them seems unbridgeable. </div>
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The feminist vision of matriarchy we can see in blurb for the
book: “Societies of Peace: Matriarchies
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“Matriarchal societies, primarily shaped by women, have a
non-violent social order in which all living creatures are respected without
the exploitation of humans, animals, or nature. They are well-balanced and
peaceful societies in which domination is unknown and all beings are treated
equally.”</div>
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This is in total contrast to femdom’s vision of matriarchy
which is about very cruel and sadistic women abusing men and treating them like
slaves. The contrast couldn't be greater.
So who is right? Or is there a middle way in this? </div>
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Yes, there is and the middle path and it might be the only
way we can create matriarchy. This is
because both the feminist and femdom visions of matriarchy are impracticable in
their present form and both need to learn from each other.</div>
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The biggest obstacle in creating a matriarchal society is
patriarchy. If we look at patriarchal
history it is very clear it doesn’t have a, “live and let live” attitude. Patriarchal societies throughout history have
always been invading each other, imposing their will onto other people and have
generally interfered in other people’s lives.
So if we have patriarchal and matriarchal societies living side by side,
it is more than likely those patriarchal societies will try to invade and
conquer the matriarchal societies. </div>
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This then is the weakness of any concept of a peaceful,
non-violent matriarchy. It can only
survive, if it is not invaded by patriarchy.
This means it can only endure in isolated communities, or on land no
patriarchal rulers or wealthy businessmen wants. It also must not pose a threat to the
existing patriarchal elite, by showing to the world a better way of living. This then is the problem. For matriarchy to thrive, it has to be strong
enough to defend itself from attack from patriarchy.</div>
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Because of this, does it mean that the female leaders of any
matriarchal society have to be as aggressive and warlike as the leaders of
patriarchal societies? They may not have
to go to this extreme, but they certainly need be willing to defend
themselves. This means, having a well
train military force with all the latest weapons. The very fact that matriarchy has to do this,
undermines the idea of a peaceful, non-violent community.</div>
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So is the femdom crowd right? That any matriarchal society that can survive
in our patriarchal world has to be led by cruel and sadistic female leaders? We certainly do not have to go that far. But the female leadership has to be willing
to send men into battle knowing they will probably die. This is not that unusual, there have been
many female leaders in patriarchal times that did this. The most well-known ones are Cleopatra,
Boudicca, Elizabeth 1, Indira Gandhi, Golda Meir and Margaret Thatcher, just to
name a few.</div>
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So it seems that a feminist matriarchy has to compromise
with any idealism of a totally peaceful society, but does it have to compromise
in other ways? Yes, it may have to compromise
on any idea of equality as well.</div>
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Sexual equality has been the bedrock of feminism and this
concept is so popular with women that we also find it in ideas about
matriarchy. The problem is with this is
that if a society is ruled by women, then how can you have sexual
equality? If you had a society ruled by
both men and women that would be an egalitarian society but is that a
matriarchy? </div>
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Though it has to be admitted, that because women do like the
idea of equality, a matriarchy would be far more equal than any patriarchal
society. A truly equal society might be
possible in a society of only women but if we have a community of both sexes, then
men will undermine any attempts to bring about an egalitarian society.</div>
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The problem is that although women very much like the idea
of sexual equality, men are not so enthusiastic. We can see this clearly in all male dominated
societies that are very unequal. Even when
men set out with a clear intention to create an equal society like in the
French and Russian revolutions, they failed completely. So why is this? </div>
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The big problem that men have with equality is that they are
very competitive with each other. Competition and equality are like oil and
water and cannot mix. This is because
competition is all about winning and losing and winners can never be equal to losers.
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We can see this in nature where most male animals fight and
compete with each other for access to females.
The prime example of this, are stags that fight each other every year,
where winner of these encounters ends up with a harem of females and the losers
get nothing. Although men don’t do this,
they still instinctively compete against each other and enjoy competitive games
like sport and even war. </div>
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This is why in any patriarchal society everything is turned
into competitive games. We see this in politics and business that can become
very competitive. This is why
patriarchal societies are so unequal, where the rich are the winners and have
far more wealth than they need and the poor are losers and live in poverty. </div>
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Women are far less competitive than men and like the idea of
equality. The reason for this, is they
give birth to children. Childbirth is a
dangerous business and women have a far better chance of survival for herself
and her children if she has the help and support of other women. So competing against other women is not a
good idea for any mother if they need the assistance of other women.</div>
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Women are also far more powerful if they support and work
together when dealing with men. We can
see their clearly when we compare the chimpanzee with the bonobo. (Both apes are genetically, our closest
relation in the animal world.) </div>
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Chimpanzees live in very male dominated communities where
male chimps use their greater size to intimidate females and force them into
submission. This doesn’t happen in
bonobo communities where the females form a powerful sisterhood and defend each
other against male aggression. </div>
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It seems, female chimpanzees pay a heavy price for not giving
assistance to each other. As they find
themselves alone when facing large and aggressive male chimpanzees, who use
violence to impose their will onto any female.
This doesn’t happen with bonobos where if a male bonobo attempts to use
force against a female, every bonobo female within hearing distant will immediately
come to her rescue. Driving the male
away and giving him a good beating in the process.</div>
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So equality and sisterhood makes perfect sense to women
because they know instinctively, that is how they become powerful. The problem for feminists is that this power
only comes about with equality between women and not between the sexes. Feminine power comes from a strong sisterhood
that support each other against male aggression.</div>
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So what do males think about this? The only men that would object to a powerful
sisterhood ruling societies are alpha males.
It makes little difference to ordinary men because they are oppressed by
a ruling elite anyway. So it makes
little difference to them who is ruling society, as their position in society
doesn’t change. They might even be
better off if women rule the world instead of alpha males, because women are
far more caring people. </div>
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This is why we have the paradoxical situation where more men
seem to be interested in matriarchy than women.
As many men instinctively know they would be better off if the world was
ruled by women. Unfortunately, femdom
men do a really bad job in selling this idea to women. </div>
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Telling women they should be cruel and sadistic is only
going to appeal to a small minority of women.
This is why there are far more men than women in the femdom scene. So the femdom version of matriarchy is not
going to be a success if most women don’t like it.</div>
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Likewise the feminist version of matriarchy where the sexes
are equal also has its problems. Because
as we see today, when we have governments of both males and females, then women
have to compete against aggressive alpha males for power. Female politicians then find themselves
having to act and behave like alpha males if they are going to achieve any
position of power. Again, only a small
minority of women want to do this. </div>
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This then is where both feminism and femdom are in
agreement, as both concepts are about women becoming far more aggressive and
assertive. </div>
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Femdom men are far more likely to get women interested in
matriarchy if they stop demanding that women act like cruel alpha males. Likewise feminists are more likely to get men
to help them gain power, if they recognise that men have little interest in
sexual equality. This is why men are far
more interested in femdom than feminism. </div>
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In spite of what feminism claim, we have to recognize that
the sexes are very different. Yes, there
are many masculine women and feminine men but the average man and woman are
different in many ways. And because of
this, a world ruled by women would be very different to one ruled by men. </div>
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A truly matriarchal world probably wouldn't be able to
eliminate warfare, violence or inequality from our world, but would do a far
better job at doing this than any patriarchal society. So the vision put forward in the book,
“Societies of Peace: Matriarchies Past Present and Future” could be partly
right. <br />
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There is one aspect of feminism that seems to be forgotten
and that is the idea that, “the sisterhood is powerful”. Women can learn a lot from the bonobo ape and
form powerful sisterhood to combat male violence and aggression. It would be far better for feminism to go
down this road, than lone females competing against alpha males for power in
business and politics.</div>
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To bring peace and harmony to our world requires women to
gain control over men, as it is men who create the vast majority of conflict
and violence in our world. This can be done through using men’s femdom
fantasies. Women do not have to whip and
torture men if they don’t wish to do this, but it would help a lot if they use
other aspects of these fantasies and be very bossy with men and allow them to
worship women. </div>
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each other’s point of view, then they can cooperate, and together create a new
matriarchal world. </div>
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We have in our patriarchal world a strange phenomenon called
femdom where men strongly desire to be women’s abused slaves. What makes this so weird, is that we live in
a male dominated world. So why would men
have desires like this, if they are suppose to be the dominant sex? Does this mean there is something wrong with
these men, or is the belief that men are naturally dominant, not true? </div>
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We have to question the idea that men are dominant when we
find that throughout history, slavery has been commonplace. Ancient civilizations like the Greeks and
Romans were slave economies and even in societies that didn't have slaves, still
had serfs and peasants, which were treated nearly as badly as slaves. As the French philosopher Jean-Jacques
Rousseau was to observe, "Man is born free, and everywhere he is in
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What we find in the whole of recorded history is that a just
handful of male rulers found it easy to exploit the vast majority of
people. This is as true today as it ever
was, as the majority of the world’s wealth and power is in the hands of only 1%
of the world’s population. So how is
this possible? And why do the common
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The reason for this, is that men are totally obedient to anyone
in authority over them. An extreme
example of this total compliance was seen in World War One. In this war, millions of British, French,
Russian and German troops all obeyed orders to come out of their trenches to
face near certain death by machine gun fire.
The mystery is, why so few men didn't obey these insane orders.</div>
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In World War Two, the Japanese took this blind obedience a
step further by ordering their airmen to crash their aircraft into enemy ships
in kamikaze attacks. Muslim extremists in
more recent times have their own version of suicide bombers by attaching
explosives to their body and blowing themselves up in crowded areas.</div>
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So why are men so obedient that they will kill themselves
when ordered to do so? Or easy allow
themselves to be exploited by a small ruling elite? The only answer is that men seem to have a
slave mentality. When we see how easy it
is to enslave men and make them totally obedient. We have to question whether men are truly the
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So if men are not dominant, what about women? In every patriarchal society women are oppressed
even more than men. This is because; the
ruling elite have invented laws and customs to keep women in a state of
servitude. For thousands of years, men
have been told that they cannot be ‘real’ men unless they are able to dominate
women. To do this, they have been
encouraged to use their greater size and strength to impose their will onto
women.</div>
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An extreme example of this is the ‘honour’ system in Muslim
countries where a man is dishonoured if his wife disobeys him. He then expected to either beat up or kill
his wife to regain his ‘honour’. It
seems that the ruling elite has had to work harder at oppressing women, than
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The problem for women is that when they become very good
subservient patriarchal wives, men don’t appreciate this and treat them with
contempt. In much the same way the
ruling elite has total contempt for the very obedient men who keep them in
power. So why have the ruling elite in every
country of the world have been so anti-women?
The reason might be that women are their main competitor, in being able
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The power of any ruling elite depends of the total obedience
of the men they rule. For instance, the
power of an emperor, king or dictator depends on the total obedience of army of
young men who will kill, maim or torture anyone who opposes or questions his
rule. It is true in democratic
governments, things are more complicated.
But as we see today, billionaires can subvert any democracy, because it
is so easy for them to bribe corrupt politicians. But if a ruling elite doesn’t enslave and
exploit men who else can do this? The
answer might be, women. </div>
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What if all of patriarchal indoctrination are lies and women
are the natural dominant sex? Could it
be that all men would have a powerful desire to worship all women and desire to
be enslaved and dominated by them. This
would mean that the femdom fantasies may not be the kinky desires of a small
group of men, but what most men want and yearn for. </div>
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So if it is natural of men to want to worship women why are
we living in a male dominated world? The
answer seems to be that thousands of years ago a small group of men used men’s natural
obedience to authority, to their own advantage. </div>
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The archaeologists Marija Gimbutas put forward a theory that
back in the Neolithic age we lived in peaceful matriarchal societies. Then about five thousand years ago, warlike
patriarchal tribe swept down from the North and conquered them. They could easy do this because a handful of
extremely violent men can always defeat a far larger army of peaceful men who
are averse to killing other people. <br />
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So what Marija Gimbutas theory suggests is that women had no
trouble in dominating men, until a small group of men then used violence
against matriarchal people. But once
patriarchal rule was established then patriarchy has retained its power not
only though violence but also through propaganda and indoctrination.</div>
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Patriarchy couldn't have lasted unless men have a natural
desire to blindly obey those in authority.
So instead of men obeying women, as in the last matriarchal age, men now
obeyed a small ruling elite of rich and powerful men. So how can ordinary men and women break the
power of the patriarchal rulers? It can
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Feminism has been fairly successful in doing this by
questioning the idea that men are the natural dominant sex through proclaiming,
women and men are equal. As the result,
we now see more women with wealth and positions of power. The problem with feminism is that it sets a
limitation of what is achievable by women.
As feminist push forward to gain more power, they find themselves being
accused of sexism as well, if they gain too much power for women. </div>
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The cornerstone of patriarchal propaganda was that a male
god ordained that men shall rule over women.
So if people believe this, then it suggests that very bossy women or men
with femdom desires are either sinful or sexual perverts. Something feminist would also agree with,
because they believe in sexual equality. For this reason, men who believe patriarchal
indoctrination try to suppress their femdom desires. At the same time bossy women try to conceal
their dominant nature as they face strong criticism in patriarchal societies,
or even from feminists.</div>
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If it becomes acceptable for men to have femdom desires and
for women to dominate men, then far more men can express their femdom desires
and not fight against them. This would
make it far easier for women to gain the upper hand in their relationships with
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Women are competing with a handful of alpha men, for the
totally obedience of the majority of men.
The more women can get men to their question patriarchal brainwashing,
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Though if the patriarchal ruling elite realize they are losing
this propaganda war, will they resort to violence? Fortunately women no longer need to be as
helpless against male violence as they once were. The Amazons probably lost out to patriarchal
armies as they were at a physical disadvantage fighting men with swords and
axes. This is not such a problem today,
as you don’t need to be extremely strong to pull the trigger of a gun.</div>
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As seen with Kurdish female soldiers, women today can match
men on the battlefield with modern weapons.
Also, male soldiers can also fight wars and yet still be subservient to
women at the same time. </div>
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It is only patriarchal brainwashing that prevents men from
following their natural feelings to want to serve and worship women. The trouble is that this patriarchal
propaganda comes to us all from schools, books, newspapers, films and TV shows.
As the result, most people never get to
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Fortunately today we have the internet where men can not
only express their femdom desires but people can talk about matriarchy and why
women should rule the world. Through
this we can reach more and more people and make matriarchy a world-wide
movement. </div>
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Many Christians have a problem with the very ‘meek and mild’ Jesus as portrayed in the New Testament. This is because this image is totally at odds with the very macho men like David, Samson and Moses you find in the Old Testament. Also, a loving and humble Jesus is not how men are expected to behave in our society, where men are expected to be assertive, aggressive and even violent, if they want to be like the ‘real men’ that are portrayed as heroes in the movies.<br />
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This is also why in our patriarchal world, masochistic or femdom men are seen as perverts, wimps and losers, because they are not macho. To the degree that some people will see it as a mental illness that needs a cure. Yet the teachings of Jesus Christ in the New Testament seem to be very masochistic. As we can see in the following two examples, taken from the King James version of the Bible.<br />
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In Matthew chapter 5 verse 38<br />
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Ye have heard that it hath been said. And eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth:<br />
But I say unto you. That ye resist not evil: but whosoever she smite thee on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.<br />
And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloak also.<br />
And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain.<br />
Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee and not turn not thou away.<br />
Ye have heard that it hath been said. Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.<br />
But I say unto you. Love your enemies, bless them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you:<br />
That ye many be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth the rain on the just and on the unjust.<br />
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We can see a similar concept in another Gospel.<br />
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Luke chapter 6 verse 27<br />
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But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you.<br />
Bless them that curse you and pray for them which despitefully use you.<br />
And unto him that smiteth thee on the one cheek offer also the other; and him that taketh away thy cloak forbid not to take away thy coat also.<br />
Give to every man that asketh of thee; and of him that taketh away thy goods ask them not again<br />
And as ye would that man should do to you, do also to them likewise<br />
For if ye love them which love you, what thanks have ye for sinners also, love those that love them.<br />
And if ye do good to them which do good to you, what thank have ye? For sinners also do even the same.<br />
And if ye lend to them of whom you hope to receive, what thank ye? For sinners also lend to sinners, to receive much gain.<br />
But love ye your enemies, and do good, and lend hoping for nothing again; and your reward shall be great, and ye shall be the children of the highest: For he is kind unto the unthankful and to the evil.<br />
Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father is merciful.<br />
Judge not and ye shall not be judged: condemn not and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven. <br />
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Now, some Christians find these teachings an embarrassment and try to ignore them. This is because a person who is willing to, “turn the other cheek”, or “love your enemies, do good to them which hate you”, could be defined as a wimp or masochist. Christians who are willing to accept these teaching don’t see it that way and claim what Jesus is teaching, is deep sacrificial love. Certainly, this is the type of unconditional love that women give to their children. The trouble is that Jesus not only taught that we should love others to the degree, it sounds masochistic, he also practiced it. <br />
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Jesus not only allowed himself to knowingly be betrayed by his disciple Judas, he didn’t try to defend himself from accusations made by the Pharisees. He also didn’t cooperate with Pilate’s attempts to get him released. In the end, he voluntary allowed himself to be mocked, beaten, whipped, tortured and crucified. <br />
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Mel Gibson was strongly criticised because of his film “The Passion Of The Christ” he showed the extreme torture of Jesus in all its revolving horror. In contrast of most films and books on Jesus that has tried to gloss over this.<br />
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So was Jesus a masochist? If we are to claim that masochists are perverts, then the sacrificial teachings and behaviour of Jesus makes no sense at all. But if we accept that masochism demonstrates an extreme commitment to love others, more than yourself, then we can understand what Jesus was attempting to teach and demonstrate by his sacrifice.<br />
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It used to be claimed by psychologist that all women are masochists and perhaps this is true if you want to give birth and bring up children. This is because devoted mothers will put the welfare of her children before her own and sacrifice herself for the needs of her children. Unfortunately many men take advantage of this by acting like children which triggers women’s maternal instincts. As the result, these child-men can get away with abusing women.<br />
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In the two thousand years of history from the time Jesus’s death to now, has been a history of continuous conflict, wars, torture, oppression, and inequality. So we can say that Christianity has been a failure in teaching men to be as loving and peaceful as what Jesus was. Because, if all men acted and behaved in the same way as Jesus did, then there would be hardly any wars, conflict or crime. Yet, in our modern world there is one group of men who are more like Jesus than most men, and these are men who have strong femdom desires.<br />
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What is interesting is that these men are not motivated to be as humble or masochistic, by any religion or spiritual ideal. They are motivated by a powerful sexual fantasy. Certainly, if all men had strong femdom desires to serve and worship women, then we would no longer live in a world of conflict and wars. Men would only want to veneration women and not be so interested in fighting and violence.<br />
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Another aspect of this would be, that if men worshiped women, it would mean women would rule the world. Women are far less little interests in wars and violence than what men are. Also women tend to be more loving towards children; a matriarchal government would never allow any child to grow up in poverty and ignorance. So they would rule a far more peaceful world and do their best to eliminate poverty.<br />
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So we can see a similarity between the desires of femdom men and Christians who strictly follow Jesus’s teachings. (This doesn’t include the Christians who follow the teachings in the Old Testament or the teachings of St Paul). So by either following the teaching of Jesus or having Femdom desires, will tend to make men more humble and caring people. Now, many people would assume that only a small minority of men have femdom desires. But is this true?<br />
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Patriarchy tells men that it is natural for men to be violent and dominate women. Yet patriarchy puts pressure onto men to be like this. For instance, Lt. Col. Dave Grossman of the US army, written books explaining how military forces all over the world have to brutalise or train men how to kill other men. This is because, as the military has discovered, that if soldiers are not trained to kill, the majority of them, will not kill the enemy on the battle-field. So if violence was natural for men, then the military wouldn't need to train and indoctrinate their soldiers into becoming killers.<br />
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The same is true of the idea that it is natural for men to dominate women. In patriarchal societies all over the world men are put under pressure to be the dominant partner in their relationships with women. An extreme example of this is the ‘honour’ system in Islamic countries. Where men are under extreme social pressure to beat-up or kill their wives if they disobey them. The point is that if male dominance was as natural as the Islamic religion claims, men wouldn't have to be indoctrinated to dominate their wives, and wives wouldn't need to be threatened with extreme violence to obey men.<br />
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It is femdom desires within men that threaten all patriarchal societies and this is why patriarchal societies condemn men, who allow their wives to be the dominant partner. For this reason, even today, in couples where the woman is the dominant, it is still kept a secret.<br />
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It is true that many women complain about how femdom men try to, “top from the bottom” and make demands on dominant women. But, we also must remember that all femdom men are brought up in patriarchal societies and have been contaminated by patriarchal thinking. It is hard for both women and men to not be influenced by the surrounding patriarchal society, even if they do have strong femdom desires.<br />
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As the result, many femdom men feel ashamed of their femdom desires because of their patriarchal upbringing and still try to resist them, which creates an inner conflict. This can make it very confusing for any women he is interacting with, because sometimes he is being very subservient to her and other times he is acting like a typical patriarchal male.<br />
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This might have been the problem Jesus had in promoting his doctrine. His teachings would have made a lot more sense if he sacrificed himself to a Goddess rather than a male god, as this would have awakened femdom desires within men. But this probably would have not been acceptable at the time. His teachings were controversial enough, without him also worshiping a female deity.<br />
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Another point was that Jesus tried to put across the concept of a loving male god, which never caught on. Most Christians, over the last two thousand years, have worshiped the judgmental and punitive god of the Old Testament rather than the loving Father God of the New Testament. This is because men are not as loving as women, so people had problems in imagining a male god that is truly loving. Whereas a loving Mother Goddess would have made far more sense, as it is so much easier to envisage a loving feminine deity.<br />
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Therefore, it might mean that half of Jesus’s original teachings may have not survived. He either censored himself, to make his teaching more acceptable, to people of the time. Or he may have put out the ideas of men worshiping women and a female deity but this was later censored by his followers. The latter might be a strong possibility, because in the few surviving Gnostic Gospels, it is claimed that Jesus worshiped the Goddess Sophia.<br />
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The history of Christianity shows us that most men are not motivated to love and care for others, by his teachings. As most Christians prefer the teachings in the Old Testament. But this might be different if we had Christian femdom teachings. Most men are not naturally interested in worshiping male gods, as patriarchal religions have to brainwash men into doing this. But if we free men from patriarchal conditioning, then most men would probably prefer to worship a female deity.<br />
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History has shown us that all religions that worship male gods tend to be violent. Even Buddhism which follows the teachings of Gautama Buddha, who like Jesus taught peace and compassion, can be very violent. As we have seen recently in the Sri Lankan and Myanmar civil wars, which are Buddhist countries. If we want to have a truly peaceful and loving world, which Jesus advocated, then this would only be possible if all men were encouraged to worship women.<br />
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So if Christianity teachings are to make men more loving and caring, in the way Jesus advocated. Then it will be far more successful if the teachings of Jesus are linked to men’s Femdom desires, so men can learn how to deeply love others, through their sexual desires to serve and venerate the female sex. <br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal">Pornography is about sex and men and women have different attitudes about sex. For men, sex seems to be about depositing semen inside women, but most men do not think much about, what happens afterwards. But women cannot have this attitude, because if the semen makes her pregnant, then she then has a child growing inside her and when it is born, she has to devote her life into looking after that child. So for this reason, what sex means to men, is very different to what it means for women. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">How little men think about fertilization is shown in porn videos, because most of it doesn’t show man’s semen going inside a woman’s vagina but more inside a woman’s mouth or anus, or even just on her face or breasts. This is generally the climax of the film. (no pun intended). All this is far too mechanical and limiting for most women, because women are more interested in relationships. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Most women prefer romance rather than pornography; this is because romantic stories are about the relationship between men and women. There is a very good reason for this. Once a woman becomes pregnant, then she is going to be better off looking after her child, if she can receive the help and support of the child’s father. So a romantic story of a man who falls in love with a woman, and loves her so much, that when she has children, he devotes his life to looking after her and her children. Is what most women want. This then, is why romantic stories are far more appealing to a woman, than pornography. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">So if romantic stories are very appealing to women, why aren’t they also appealing to men as well? Why is it that so many men will prefer a pornography story, than a romantic story? The reason could be about how men and women think about love.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">For most women, love is not a choice; it is very difficult for a woman not to love. The reason for this, is that women have a very powerful maternal instinct. For most species of animal to survive, it is important that the female want to have young and nurture them, until they reach breeding age. This instinct is even more important for human beings because the human baby is the most helpless newborn in the animal kingdom. As well as taking nearly 20 years to become an adult. So, for the human species to survive, it means that the human female has to have a very powerful maternal instinct in caring for and protecting her children. This means, women have very little choice in wanting to love. This maternal instinct is so strong that women not only love children, they also love men and animals as well. The caring professions, like nursing, old people carers and social workers are also dominated by women.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">On the other hand, men do have a choice about whether he wishes to love others. In evolutionary terms, men can fertilize many different women and therefore father lots of children and not be involved in caring for any of them, if he doesn’t wish, to do so. This is one of the reasons why human societies have marriage, laws and customs. Is to try and force men to stay and help to look after the children they have fathered. This attitude of mind is reflected in pornography.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">One of the reasons why many women do not like pornography is that it is devoid of love. Women like romantic stories about love, but men are not so sure about this. The reason for this, is that, if you fall in love, then you are ‘hooked’. In other words if you deeply love another person, then you many find yourself devoting your life to caring about other people. For this reason, many men are wary about getting married, and forming relationships as they want freedom from this. This is also why men like pornography, because it is mostly about sex without love. Men do like to have fantasies about having sex with women, without having all the problems of loving relationships or having to care for children. Women on the other hand have no choice in this, it is far harder for women to divorce sex from love and the nurturing children.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Another thing that many women don’t like about pornography is that some of it goes further than just being unloving. Some of it, is about men degrading and hurting women. So why is this? The reason probably is, is that if men do fear loving a woman, then the defence against this, is hatred. By hating women, allows men to have sex with them, without getting emotionally involved in them.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">It can be even get more problematic that this. Men do want and need women to love them, but when this happens, it is hard not to love women in return. So hate becomes the antidote to love, as men find themselves in a position of hating the women who loves them. This is shown in extreme porn videos, where women are shown being loving towards men and only receiving abuse in return. These men do not even like to acknowledge these women are being loving, and accuse these abused women of being, kinky, perverted or masochistic. Psychologists claim that women who love abusive men are masochistic because they lack self-esteem. They do not comment on the powerful maternal instinct of women, that allows them to love these types of men. So it is not about her being kinky, perverted or masochistic or any of the other labels people place on these women, but just about the expression of her powerful maternal instincts. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The same cannot be said about men who abuse loving women. It is true they are simply resisting feelings of love, they have for others. Therefore, it is perfectly reasonable for a man, not to want to love, so he is free to do what he likes. But it is not so understandable if he abuses women who love him. Or fathers children and runs away, the moment his girlfriend is pregnant or gives birth.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Another problem women have with pornography is that the type of sex that is written about or shown, is unlikely to give a woman pleasure. Certainly a woman is not going to receive an orgasm through having a penis in her mouth or anus, but this can also be true, if a woman has a penis in her vagina. A very large number of women cannot orgasm through vagina stimulated. The reason for this, is that orgasm can only happen, if the clitoris is stimulated. If a woman has her clitoris close to the opening of her vagina, then the penis might rub against it while the penis is pumping inside her and so she may be able to have an orgasm. But if there is no contact between the penis and clitoris through penetrative sex, then it is very difficult for this to happen. This is still true, even if the man has a gigantic penis.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The problem is, that if a woman tries to explain this to some men, he can see it as a criticism of his sexual performance. As a result, she can be accused of being frigid, and encouraged to see a doctor or a psychologist. Because of this, many women end up faking an orgasm, to spare herself this aggravation. This faking also happens in pornographic stories and videos. For this reason, seeing a porn actress faking an orgasm from penetrative sex, is not going to excite a woman, who knows she cannot orgasm like this. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">It seems most women can only orgasm through direct <a href="http://blog.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/">clitoris</a> stimulation, which means that the man has to either use his finger or tongue. Pornography is full of stories and videos of women giving men oral sex but there is not a lot about men giving oral sex to women. And even when that is shown, very few of it shows a man licking a woman’s clitoris until she orgasms. So for this reason, as far as women are concerned, pornography is only about men’s pleasure and not about what women enjoy.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">So the differences between the sexes, in their attitude to pornography and romance are all to do about their different feelings about love. Women are looking for love and relationships in their sex lives, whereas many men prefer to separate sex from love. In this, there doesn’t seem to be a lot of compromise. Many men have learnt to have loving relationships with women when they live with them and have a family. But it is very difficult for women to have sexual relationships without love. It is true women working in the sex industry are expected to do this, but they don’t find it easy. The stereotype of the prostitute with the heart of gold is true, because women find it too difficult to suppress their maternal instincts completely.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">So the pornographic industry will continue while many men fantasize about sex without love, and women are willing to serve the needs of these men. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div>williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05285178912635949559noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-669812582750495196.post-40216395268366622472010-12-02T01:05:00.001-08:002016-07-31T14:15:10.584-07:00Methods Women can use to control men.<div class="MsoNormal">
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On many message boards on the Internet we find messages from dominant women complaining that submissive men are a waste of time. One of the biggest complaints is that submissive men tend to, “top from the bottom”. Usually they are use to going to a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dominatrix">Dominatrix</a> with a list of demands and the Dominatrix does whatever the man wants, because after all, he is the client and is paying for her time. Unfortunately these submissive men tend to do the same when they meet genuine Dominant Women and also demand that they act out their fantasies and then cannot understand it if the Women refuse to do this. So what can a woman do in a situation like this? The answer comes from modern <a href="http://positively.com/">Dog training</a>, modern <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Recruit_training">military training</a> and modern <a href="http://www.lifematters.com/step.asp">child rearing</a>.<br />
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As all dog trainers tell you, you cannot train a dog properly unless you take the alpha position in your relationship with your dog. So if the man starts to make demands on how he wishes to be dominated, then the Dominant Woman can ask the obvious question, “who is the boss?” She then has to further explain what should be obvious, that in a relationship between a Dominant Woman and a submissive man, it is the Woman who tells the man what to do, and not the other way around. If the man then says, “I’m only explaining what I want”, then the woman has to patiently explain that in a relationship between a Dominant Woman and submissive man, it is all about what the Woman wants, not what the man wants. After all, if the man is demanding she act out his fantasies, he is not consider the fact that she might have her own fantasies, that she might want him to act out, for her.<br />
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It seems some men can accept this, but not all men. Many men can get very frightened when the Woman takes the relationship out of the realm of sexual fantasy and into reality. So why is this? I think for many men, the problem is that they are frightened by their own Femdom fantasies. They have fantasies of cruel and sadistic women who beat, torture and humiliate them, which may all right in a fantasy world, but not in the real world. So these fantasies might be acceptable when acted out with a Dominatrix, where they have an agreed “safe word”, so if it gets too much, he can say the magic word and the Dominatrix stops what she is doing to him. This means these fantasies are perfectly all right while the man is in control of the situation and can put a stop to it whenever he likes. But if he meets a Dominant Woman who says, “I’m the boss, and you do as I say,” then he has lost control of the relationship. So he starts to imagine what would happen if she was the tie him up and whip him without a safe word. This is why some men run away when a Dominant Woman asserts her authority and tells him that she is the boss. But he is not actually frightened of the Woman but his own fantasies about what she might do to him.<br />
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So the Dominant Women then has to explain to the man two things; that she is the boss, and that she is a caring and loving person. Now, this will be difficult for many men to understand, because they associate Dominance with cruelty and sadism, because they cannot imagine how a Dominant person can also be a loving and caring person. <br />
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This is very old fashion thinking. In the past, dog trainers did use to train dogs by beating them with a stick. In fact, some dog trainers of the past recommend that the trainer tie the dog up and beat it, when they first meet, to establish who is the boss and make the dog frightened of the trainer. This means that Femdom fantasies come directly from this type of thinking, of assuming that the alpha person in the relationship, has to establish their dominance through brutality. This is why many submissive men pay a dominatrix to spank, whip or torture him, as he assumes that dominance can only be established through force and violence. </div>
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In the 19<sup>th</sup> century, children were once routinely beaten by their parents and school teachers. A favourite saying of the time was, “spare the rod and spoilt the child”. (See <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Your-Own-Good-Violence-Child-Rearing/dp/078816452X">"For Your Own Good: The roots of violence in child-rearing</a>", by Alice Miller). Nowadays, school teachers and most parents no longer beat their children, and this is also true of dog training and military training. A modern dog trainer doesn’t beat their dogs to make them obedient and neither does the military. In the past soldiers were whipped to make them obedient but no modern army does this today, as more effective methods have been found to make soldiers obedient. So if a Dominant Woman doesn’t beat her submissive, how does she make him obey her? <a href="http://positively.com/">Modern dog trainers</a> and the modern military use methods like, persistence, repetition and positive reinforcement. These are the methods that have shown to be the most effective in controlling men’s behaviour.<br />
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When a soldier first joins the army, he is subjected to “<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Military_parade">parade ground discipline</a>”, where along with a number of other troops, he is indoctrinated into obey orders. To do this, he is put into a position where he is not allowed to move a muscle unless ordered to do so by the Sergeant Major. So he is given orders like, “attention”, “left turn”, right turn, “quick march”, even when he is marching the Sergeant Major is shouting at him, “left, right, left right” so he is even ordered how to march. The orders the Sergeant Major give are totally pointless, as he will order the soldiers to march up and down the parade ground, for no apparent reason. So why do the military do this to soldiers? The reason is to brainwash soldiers so completely into obeying orders, so that in battle, soldiers will obey orders without question. So even if ordered to charge a machine gun post, these men will obey the order without question. The same is also true of dog training. It is not enough to get a dog to obey the dog-trainer once, the dog-trainer will repeat the same command over and over again until the dog is so indoctrinated into obeying this order, it will do so automatically.<br />
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So a Dominant Woman can learn from this in her relationship with submissive men. At the beginning of this relationship it pays the women to be extremely bossy. She doesn’t have to shout at the man like a Sergeant Major, but it is a good idea to give him a lot of orders and expect him to give her instance obedience. It is also a good idea to give him meaningless orders like ordering him to walk to the top of the stairs and then walk down again, so he gets the idea of obeying without question. Now, some people will ask the question that, “if the man is obeying her, why does she need to keep on giving him orders?” The reason is that at first he is obeying her because he wants to do so, but later on in the relationship he may decide not to obey her and she will find there is nothing she can do about it. But he won’t find this so easy, if she makes a point of giving him a large number of orders at the beginning of the relationship, so she will have indoctrinated him into obeying her automatically. Then at a later stage of the relationship if he has any thoughts of defying her, he will find it hard to disobey her, because he has been brainwashed into obedience.<br />
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All humans are creatures of habit. Once habitual behaviour has been established within us, we find it difficult to break this habit. As pointed out before, the military gets soldiers into the habit of obeying orders so that if ordered to risk their lives and face enemy fire, they will do so without question. So if a Dominant Woman can get man into the habit of obeying her, this habit of behaviour can become so strong, that she will take on the mystique of, “she who must be obeyed”.<br />
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Dog training has more to teach Dominant Women into controlling men that just getting him to obey orders. What both dog trainers and child psychologists have discovered is that people can unwittingly train both children and dogs into anti-social behaviour without realising they are doing this. The same is true of Dominant Women who can unwittingly train a man to do the opposite to what she wants him to do. <br />
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What child psychologists have noticed is that with many parents, is if child is naughty, it gets a lot of attention, but if the child is good, then he or she gets ignored. The same is also true of dog owners who will ignore a dog that is behaving itself, but only give it attention if it doing something the dog owner doesn’t want it to do. To be fair, this is for most people normal behaviour, we tend to take notice of things that we don’t like and take for granted behaviour we do like. But by doing this, we can unintentionally train the people and animals we live with; to behave in way we don’t want them to behave. The reason being, is they are being rewards for bad behaviour by getting attention and being punished for good behaviour, by being ignored.<br />
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Both people and dogs are social animals, and children like their parents to socialize with them. So if children find that their parents only take notice of them when they misbehave, then they are encouraged to do this to get their parents attention. The same is also true of dogs, if their owners tend to only give them attention when they misbehave and it can also true of the relationship between a Dominant Woman and submissive male. If the man is being ignored when he is behaving as he should, but gets the Woman’s attention when he misbehaves, then he is encouraged to do things she doesn’t want him to do, so she will take notice of him. An extreme case of this happening, is when a Dominant Woman punishes the man by spanking him. This only works if the man doesn’t like being spanked, but if he finds spanking sexually exciting, then he will be encouraged to do something to annoy the Woman frequently, so he will be spanked. This might not be a problem if the woman enjoys spanking the man, but a big problem is she is only doing it to get him to do as he is told. As her efforts to make him behave properly is having the opposite effect.<br />
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Dog trainers and child psychologists speak about <a href="http://allpsych.com/psychology101/reinforcement.html">positive reinforcement</a> as means of controlling dogs and children. This method is the total opposite of the old fashion method of negative enforcements which means punishing an animal or person for doing something wrong. Positive reinforcement is about rewarding and encouraging people and animals to be well behaved.</div>
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So what is required is for parents to take notice when their children are behaving in ways they approve off and give them praise and encouragement, but to completely ignore them when they misbehave. <a href="http://positively.com/">Modern dog trainers</a> also use the same method in training dogs. Now, many people find this difficult to do, as they completely take for granted good behaviour in children and animals so they don’t notice it, but get upset over bad behaviour and focus their minds on this. So to reward and encourage good behaviour and ignore bad behaviour, means many people have to think in a completely different way.<br />
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This method works extremely well with dogs. Modern dog training is all about patience and keen observation. For instance if a dog trainer wants to train a dog to sit on command, she will trick it into sitting by holding a small piece of food in front of it and manoeuvre it until she gets the dog to sit. She will then give the command “sit” and praise the dog and give it the food, which dog trainers call a treat. The dog trainer has to be very clear in her behaviour that the dog will only get praise and the treat if it sits down. Then she will then repeat this again and again until the dog associates the command “sit” with sitting down. After this has been established, she will wean it off the treat, by only giving it the treat sometimes when she give the command to sit, until it will regularly sit on command without needing to reward it with food. <br />
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Now, some people will point out that children and men are not dogs and what works for dogs may not work for people. Certainly humans are far more complicated than what dogs are, but as <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Behaviorism">Behaviourist</a> Psychologists have shown, animal training methods work just as well on humans as they do on animals. <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/30/books/review/Leibovich.html">http://www.nytimes.com/2008/03/30/books/review/Leibovich.html, </a> The USA military would agree with this, as they have used Behaviourist psychology on their soldiers with great success, and all the Behaviourist methods come from behaviour experiments on animals. The military reward their soldiers with medals and praise, like telling them, “you are the best soldiers in the world” and marching them in public parades, for people to cheer them. Certainly you cannot train a human being like a dog, by rewarding it with scraps of food, like dogs, but humans do respond to praise and approval, and these are the methods that modern child psychologists recommend for controlling children. So a Dominant Woman can increase her dominance over a man through positive reinforcement. She can do this by praising a man for how obedient he is when he does obey her and praise him when he successfully does tasks for her. <br />
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Modern child psychologists point out that what parents and teachers tell children can have both a positive or negative effect on them. For instance, if a parent or teacher tells a child repetitively he is stupid, his confidence in himself will be undermined so they he can quickly lose interest in school work. It is true for some people this can have the opposite effect and the child can get angry and being told he is stupid and this can motivate him to prove the parent or teacher is wrong, but most children are not like this. Scientific studies on human behaviour show us that praise and approval are the best tools for motivating people. So a parent or teacher that only tells children what they are doing wrong all the time, will quickly undermine their confidence in themselves.<br />
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This is equally true of a Dominant Woman’s behaviour to a submissive man. If at any time he doesn’t do as he is told or fails to serve her in the way she wants and she makes a big issue of this. She can unwittingly train him to be exactly the sort of person she doesn’t want him to be. If say a woman has a man who is obedient 99% of the time but sometimes doesn’t do as he is told, either because he misunderstood her, or was tired at the time, and if she makes a big fuss about the 1% of the time he is not obedient and tells him how disobedient he is, she can start to brainwash him into disobedience. We can understand how this works by looking at the advertising industry.<br />
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Most people like to think they are immune to advertising, as they cannot believe how the silly adverts they see, can possibly influence them, but they would be wrong. Big international companies do not spend billions of dollars on adverts for no reason whatsoever. They use adverts because they know they work. The secret of adverts is repetition. If we are repetitively told the same thing over and over again, we can be brainwashed into believing in it, without being aware of its subconscious effect on us. <a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Snow-Ball-Psychological-Techniques-of-Mass-Media-Brain-Washing-Effect&id=3407754"> Advertising</a>.<br />
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So a Dominant Woman has to be very aware of what she habitually tells her submissive partner. If she starts complaining and tells him he is disobedient, then she will unsuspectingly brainwash him into being disobedient. If the woman wants him to be obedient all the time, then it helps a lot to tell the man everyday how obedient he is, when he does obey her, until he gets to believe it. The same is true for the way she wants him to serve her and do jobs for her. It is all right to correct him and show him how to serve her properly, but too much criticism will undermine him and brainwash him into believing that he is useless at serving her. Praise works far better than criticism, in getting a man to do a good job in serving a woman. So it is far more helpful to tell him when he is doing things right rather than when he is doing things wrong.<br />
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Now, some Dominant Women will object to this. They will point out that women have been doing this for centuries, of pandering to men’s egos to get their own way, while at the same time men have been criticising women to undermine their confidence. The reason men do this, is that if you undermine a person’s confidence, they are less likely to challenge your status as the alpha person in the relationship. So some women will want revenge and want to do the same to men. Some women want to take it even further, because men have been dominating women for thousands of years through violence and so some women want to do the same to men. The problem is that the average woman is smaller and physically weaker than the average man, so a woman can only get away with hitting a man if he doesn't hit her back. Which means a woman can only use violence against a man, if he is a masochist. <br />
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That is a personal choice, and if women want to get their own back by undermining men’s confidence and then use violence against him, then that is up to them. Men cannot complain about this, because this is what men have been doing to women for thousands of years. </div>
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But the point is, that history has shown that men do a terrible job in ruling our world, as male rulers create wars, genocide and poverty. So if women are to take over and rule instead, then women need to know the most effective methods of controlling men. The best methods come from modern dog-training, child care and the military, which use repetition and positive reinforcement, and women need to learn about this methods, to keep men under their control.<br />
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<a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Power-Your-Subconscious-Mind/dp/0743408187">The power of the Subconscious Mind</a> by Joseph Murphy<br />
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<a href="http://hubpages.com/profile/wabond">Hub pages by William Bond </a><br />
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Videos by William Bond<br />
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williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05285178912635949559noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-669812582750495196.post-48416497333771133632010-11-15T08:40:00.001-08:002011-10-09T02:56:52.478-07:00Learning Love Through Fetishism<div class="MsoNormal"><br />
Many men today are developing many unusual fetishes, like foot and panty fetishes. It is usual for many people to put these fetishes down to perversion and not try and understand what is really going on. So I have decided to look past any snap judgements about this and attempt look at what motivates people who like fetishes.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">It may sound incredible to a person who thinks that a person with a fetish is "sick", but a man who has a panty fetish is man starting to learn about love. Women it seems know everything there is to know about love, because when women have children a bond is created where most women will give their child unconditional love. In men this bond to their children is not so strong, so some men who will quickly move out of a woman's life if she has a child. Or refuse to pay maintenance to his child if he separates or is divorced from his child's mother. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">Any woman who has a child is biologically programmed to learn about love. But for a man this biological tie to children is not so strong. So how can a man learn about love in the same depth as a woman? Surprisingly he can learn through so called sex-perversion.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">A panty lover likes to be able to smell the used panties and drape it over his head so to him it is an oral experience. This means that such a man wouldn't be adverse to going down on a woman and giving oral sex. It can also indicate that the man might also want to kiss or lick the anus of a woman, as some men like to also lick the crutch piece of the panties.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">So it means that a man who likes to go down on a woman is giving enjoyment to a woman without any thought to his own needs. So it is a sign that by putting the needs of another person before his own, and the beginning of learning about unconditional love. Though it has to be said that this may be only a sign of where he is going and it many not be an indication that he has got there yet. A man may be willing to go down on a woman but only regard it as foreplay. Or may even go as far as bringing the women to organism but demand his turn afterwards. So although such a man has moved on from the very selfish man who is only concerned with his own pleasure and cares little about what the women might want. He is still a long way to go in learning unconditional love in giving without wanting any reward or even praise for it. He is still got in the same league as a woman gives to her children all her life or a Woman who can still love an abusive husband.<br />
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</div><div class="MsoNormal"></div><div class="MsoNormal">Likewise a man who wants to kiss the anus of a woman, although might get turned-on with this form of worship, may only feel that way while in the act of worship. For the rest of the time he may act like a normal selfish patriarchal man. Though it is still and indication that he wants to learn how to give to and love others unconditionally. A similar tale can be told of a man who has a foot fetish. To kiss a woman's feet is an act of worship. But it can be to him be only a fantasy he enjoys, and not necessary how he really feels about women. Though for some men the feelings worshiping a woman can be so overwhelming that he finds he wants to be her devoted slave. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">All these fetishes can be sign-posts and not the real thing, it shows what direction a man is moving but it doesn't mean that he has got there yet. Women have learnt about unconditional love over the thousands of years, by caring for ungrateful husbands and children. Men on the other hand have only just started. Yet there is some men who are able to surrender his whole life to a woman and her children.. In the same way millions of women have done in the past and still do today. Unconditional love, does not come naturally to a man, it is something he has to learn to do through practice. A fetish is about emotion, and this emotion can give a man the motivation to start to learn about giving unconditional love. For any man with a strong and powerful ego it is difficult to start to surrender his own needs in favour of another or others. So another very strong emotional like a fetish desire, is sometimes needed to overcome the voice of his ego. It is only when the man begins to experience the pleasure and reward of giving to others, so he identify himself in others and not himself, then the need of having a fetish becomes less.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">A man with a fetish is no different from a monk, who is attempting to go beyond his own selfish needs and serve others to find 'the kingdom of god' or 'enlightenment'. It is only the motivation that is different, one is religious and the other is sexual. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">There is a path that combines both ways and that is through <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tantra">Tantra</a> and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taoism">Taoism</a>. Most religions try to overcome sexual desire, which means they are attempting to learn about unconditional love without serving a woman. This method only allows homosexual and celibate men to follow this path, as they learn to serve the needs of other men. Only Tantra and Taoism uses both sexual and spiritual motivation to reach enlightenment. Which means a man can be spiritual and acknowledge his sexual desires at the same time. Tantra and Taoism teaches men to withhold his organism that allows a woman to enjoy sex as long as possible without any fear of her enjoyment being cut short by the man ejecting. Many Tantra and Tao "masters" have boasted of not having an organism for years in spite of having an active sex-life. So a man doing this is surrendering his sexual enjoyment in favour of the woman. It is also notable that in Tantra and Tao sexual positions are mostly shown with the woman on top allowing her to take control of the act. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">There are many other fetishes with men that tell a similar story. A man who gets turned on by being dressed up as a baby and having a woman treat him as one. In one way he is still having the desire of having a woman look after him and giving him everything he needs. Yet at the same time in playing the role of a baby he is allowing the woman to have power over him. It is of interest that the "disciplining" of the baby is an important aspect of this fantasy. So the man is learning about how to give over control of his life to a woman, whom he gives the power to teach him how to behave in the manner she wants him to behave. Which means in relationships with other women, he can get used to fitting in with what the women wants and not her fitting in with what he wants all the time. So this gift of power also becomes a gift of unconditional love.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">This form of fetish can grow to a more extreme forms where a man will pay a Dominatrix to tie him up then whip and torture him. This man is then giving for a while total power to a woman. There are many people who like to, "go-over-the-top" in everything they do. So this could explain this behaviour, but there could be another reason for this. This may be happening because the man is not practising the lessons in love that the fetish is teaching him. If the man is not giving any women the gift of power over him in his normal daily life, then the fetish becomes stronger to make him do this. Unfortunately if he still refuses, then the fetish becomes so strong that he finds he has a need to be tied up and tortured by a woman in an extreme manner. Not realising that by keeping his fantasies separate from his normal life, he is making the power of the fetish stronger and stronger.</div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><div class="MsoNormal">The lack of understanding our emotions has caused great suffering in the world. Religions and social customs have encouraged people to take control of their emotions and suppress any that are socially unacceptable. Unfortunately these emotions are never denied, and come back to us in stronger and more extreme form when suppressed, until they take over the person completely and they may do harm to others or themselves. These forms of extreme desires have given emotions a bad name, giving people more reasons to suppress them. What we need to realise is that emotions are our friends, without emotion we would not have a need to get out of bed in the morning. All we would just be is just a sophisticated robot with no motivation to do anything. </div><div class="MsoNormal"><br />
</div><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman"; font-size: 12pt;">So to write off a fetish as just a perversion or a person with a sick mind, doesn't help him or society as a whole. It is only by making them conscious, understanding why we have these types of desires that we can channel them into acceptable forms that do not harm ourselves or others. Unfortunately psychologist or psychiatrists do not talk much about love, and because of this are not very good guides to people with fetishes. </span>williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05285178912635949559noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-669812582750495196.post-37213086441933344062010-01-31T11:12:00.000-08:002011-10-09T02:57:31.009-07:00Why Men Love Dominant Women.Logically it makes no sense of any man to want to live with a Dominant Woman. After all, nowadays, men can answer adverts for women in Thailand or Philippines or Russia, where we are told women are very submissive and will so anything the man wants. As it is claimed they are old fashion women who will cook and clean the house for him and he can have sex with them whenever and however he likes. So why would any man want to live with a Feminist wife who will demand equal shares in everything, or a Dominant Women who expect the man to do as he is told at all times? But logic doesn’t seem to have a lot to do with human behaviour; as it is emotions that motivate us all.<br />
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This to me was highlighted many years ago when I was part of a conversation with a woman who was complaining about her neighbor, “her over the road”. The complaining woman prided herself on being a good mother to her teenage children, and devoted her life of caring and looking after them. But in spite of everything she done for her children, none of them showed any gratitude and took everything she was doing for them, for granted. The situation was very different for, “her over the road”. She also had teenage children but the complaining women saw her as a bad mother, as she did very little for her children. For instance; in the mornings when her children had to get ready to go to school she stayed in bed and the children had to get ready themselves. Not only that, the children had to not only get their own breakfast, they had to make a breakfast for their mother and give it to her in bed! Yet, the teenage children of, “her over the road”, thought their mother was wonderful, and were happy to do anything their mother wanted. This greatly infuriated the complaining woman who wanted to know, what was she doing wrong?<br />
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After all, logic should tell you that if you give to others and love them unconditionally they should appreciate what you do for them and give love and appreciation in return. It is true some people can appreciate being loved unconditionally but not all people are like that. For instance, there is very little appreciation for unconditional love in patriarchal marriages. Many patriarchal women have given their husbands unconditional love for years; yet have only receive physical and verbal abuse in return.<br />
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The problem for any man living with a traditional patriarchal wife is that he is not encouraged to love others. Yes, a submissive patriarchal wife will love her husband unconditionally but he is not expected to give love back to her. Things are a bit better if a man lives with a Feminist wife, as he is expected to love his wife and children but it is all in the spirit of equal sharing of, “I will give it to you, if you will give it to me”. So love becomes a bargain, and a man is still not expected to give unconditional love.<br />
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Unconditional love is generally easy for women because they have a maternal or nurturing instinct. When most, (not all), women give birth they fall deeply in love with child they have given birth to. But for men, love is not so easy as he doesn’t have such a powerful nurturing instinct. If a man is brought up in a traditional patriarchal society, he is not expected to love anyone or anything. While in very strict patriarchal countries he is actively discouraged from learning to love, as love is seen as a ‘weakness’. After all, how can a man be expected to discipline his wife and children by beating them, if he loves them? Because of this, many men associate dominance with ruthlessness and cruelty.<br />
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So in a traditional patriarchal society a man is condemned to live a life where he is only allowed to love himself, and not all men are happy with this situation. When a man only loves himself, he becomes, in the words of the poet <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Donne">John Donne</a>; in his poem, “<a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/No-Man-Island-Inspirational/dp/0285628747">No Man Is An Island</a>”, “an island, entire, of it self”. In other words, the man becomes isolated to the degree he finds it hard to connect to other people. In this isolated world the man becomes fearful of others. This dilemma is explained by the French philosopher <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jean-Paul_Sartre">Jean-Paul Sartre</a>, through his famous saying, “the other is hell”, this is true when a man cannot connect with others and sees them as his enemy.<br />
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Life for the patriarchal woman is not much better. It is easy for her to give unconditional love to her husband because she uses her maternal instincts and thinks of her husband as a child. (This can infuriate some more aware patriarchal men, who realize that their wives are turning them into children). So a patriarchal wife becomes a full time mother and relates to all people in the spirit of motherly concern. Through this she learns to love all people in a motherly way but is not allowed to love herself. This is because by not loving herself she can put all the needs of others before her own and therefore not worry about the way she is oppressed and ill-treated in the patriarchal world. A woman who begins to love herself in a traditional patriarchal society, would find life very stressful.<br />
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In the last couple of centuries many men have wanted to break out of their patriarchal isolation and have looked to salvation from Dominant Women. Like Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, who in 1870 published his famous book “<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Venus_in_Furs">Venus In Furs</a>”. This book started the Femdom genre as all other Femdom stories have followed a similar theme. <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leopold_von_Sacher-Masoch">Sacher-Masoch</a> wasn’t just a fantasist; he lived out many of the themes within “Venus In Furs” with his mistress Baroness Fanny Pistor. He was also wrote articles on the emancipation of women and advocate female education and suffrage. His other writings showed him to be a caring man as he wrote about the problems of impoverished and oppressed peoples.<br />
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The problem with the Femdom genre, is that it is all about dominance and submission and because most of these stories are written by men, love is hardly mentioned. Yet, love is the key to understand Femdom, and men’s attraction to Dominant Women. Dominance and submission are thought to be a kinky perversion or even a mental illness. For instance, male psychologists used to think of patriarchal women’s desires to love her husband unconditionally, in spite of the fact he was physically and verbally abusing her, as masochism. They never thought of it as the extension of her maternal and nurturing instincts, where they loved their husbands the same way they love children.<br />
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So why do men have to look to Dominant Women for salvation? This is because only Dominant Women can teach men to love deeply.<br />
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Feminist Women can also teach men to love, but the difficulty with Feminism is that it teaches equality between men and women. So it is about men and women loving each other equally. This is not a problem for Women, but for men love then becomes a bargain. “I will love you, if you will love me”. So by making love a bargain it is devalued and not very satisfactory for both partners. But when a man loves a Dominant Women then, he is connected to a very powerful love that can take over his whole life.<br />
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What men find is that it is not easy for them to love traditional patriarchal women, they can love Feminist Women more, but with Dominant Women they find they can love them so deeply, that they want to worship and serve them and become their slaves. The reason for this; is that Dominant Women have learnt how to love themselves. The more a Woman can learn to love herself, the more deeply a man can love her. This is why men have problems in loving patriarchal women, the patriarchal women is so busy sacrificing herself and giving to others unconditional love, she doesn’t allow any room for others to love her.<br />
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As previously mentioned, although a Feminist Woman can teach a man to love, it is conveyed to him that love is a bargain. The result is that in Feminist marriages there are arguments about who is giving more to whom. So a Feminist wife may complain that she is still doing more to look after the kids and the house than her husband, who in turns thinks he is already doing a lot to help her. Which means that when love becomes a bargain, then that gets in the way of people loving each other, deeply.<br />
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There is no problem with this, in a traditional patriarchal marriage or in a man’s relationship with a Dominant Women. A patriarchal woman doesn’t expect her husband to love her. Likewise a man who loves a Dominant Women learns that his love for her has to be unconditional, for the relationship to work.<br />
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We can see this in Femdom groups with men’s desire to be cuckold. That is to say, the Dominant Woman is free to have sexual relationships with any man she likes but he has to stay faithful to her. In some relationships they go even further where the man is put into a chastity belt, so he cannot have sex unless his partner unlocks him. Some Dominant Women may also ban the man from having penetrative sex, so the only sexual contact he has with her, is giving her cunnilingus. Yet, these men are more than happy to accept these conditions and even encourage their partners to be more extreme in their behaviour.<br />
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So from this point of view it might seem that a FemDom relationship is very much like a traditional patriarchal relationship but with the Woman playing the dominant role and not the man. But there is one vital difference. It is far easier for a Dominant Woman to love her submissive male partner, than it is for a patriarchal man to love his submissive wife. We can see this in the different attitudes of physical and verbal abuse.<br />
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Some men strongly desire Dominant Women to punish them by being whipped or caned or verbally abuse them. After all, this is what men have been doing to Women for thousand of years, in strict patriarchal marriages. But not all Dominant Women want to do this. The reason is that Women understand love better than what men do. So if a Woman has to make a man obedient through physical punishment, then it puts doubt in the Woman’s mind if he truly loves her. The reason is because if he deeply loved her, then he would obey her without question, and his biggest punishment will simply be the knowledge, that he hasn’t pleased her.<br />
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This then shows the big difference between patriarchy and Matriarchy. In a patriarchal society men are not taught to love, as he is told that love is a ‘weakness’. While in a Matriarchal society most Women will find it hard to suppress their maternal or nurturing instincts. For this reason it is difficult for a Woman to learn to love herself, by suppressing her love for others. (Though admittedly some Women do try to do this). So for most Women, she has to learn how to be both loving and dominant at the same time. In other words, a Dominant Women has to learn how to love herself and love others at the same time.<br />
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For people brought up in the patriarchal tradition find this hard to believe. Because men are told that a man cannot be a ‘strong’ leader unless he is cruel and ruthless. So it is not surprising to find patriarchal men to be selfish and brutal people. Now it is true that in an unloving society where men are not encouraged to love each other, it inevitable that the most ruthless men are likely to become the rulers. But this doesn’t have to be the case in a Matriarchal society, where everyone will be encouraged and taught to love others.<br />
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In other words, a Dominant Women is unlikely to dominate through coercion and physical violence; she will dominate through love, the love of herself. Even if a Woman does spank a man or use physical violence, he has to co-operate and allow her to do this. This is because the average man is bigger and stronger than the average woman. So physical violence will end up being only a symbol of her power, over him, and nothing to do with the way she dominates him. The dominance comes through a Woman’s love for herself.<br />
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An example of a woman who is able to love others and love herself at the same time would be the Country and Western singer <a href="http://www.dollyparton.com/">Dolly Parton</a>. Recently I saw a TV programme about her life and at no time did she say anything bad about anyone or others said anything bad about her. She came across at all times as a very loving and caring person. Yet she was also a strong-minded businesswoman, she was clearly in charge of her own life and career and her husband was hardly mentioned. He allowed himself to stay very much in the background and not interfere in her life. So to me she came across as a woman who is able to love herself and love others at the same time.<br />
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As previously mentioned, the more a Woman can learn to love herself the more men can love her. For instance if a Women doesn’t love herself, she is unlikely to accept a man worshipping and serving her. It will become difficult for her to allow him to keep on giving to her without giving in return. And in no way would a Women like this accept a man’s worship of allowing him to kiss her feet or bottom or give her cunnilingus. But by not allowing him to serve and worship her, she is denying him the opportunity to learn to love another person, unconditionally.<br />
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Now this can be a controversial subject as patriarchal religions have taught people to be humble or as in Eastern Religions, to overcome the ego. So the ego has become in the minds of many people another sort of Devil. Yet, if you think about it for a moment, you realise that people who are humble and have little love for themselves are far easier to rule and control than people who do love themselves. So this is why patriarchy teaches humility or that the ego is bad. If the people began to love themselves too much, they wouldn’t put up with patriarchal oppression and so the people are far more likely to rise up and demand equal rights. This is very true for Women who have accepted patriarchal oppression for thousands of years through learning extreme humility, by not being allowed to love themselves. While most patriarchal men where only allowed to love themselves to the degree patriarchal women loved them. Only the rich and powerful were allowed to love themselves without restraint.<br />
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With the decline of patriarchal religions in the West, the common men have been allowed to love themselves more. But for Women the change has been far more dramatic and as they learnt to love themselves even more, the more attractive they have become to men.<br />
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So men need Dominant Women whom they can serve and worship if they are to learn how to love others unconditionally. While Women through men’s desire to worship them as Goddesses, can fulfill their desire to love themselves.williamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05285178912635949559noreply@blogger.com30tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-669812582750495196.post-14965968899558929452009-11-20T08:22:00.000-08:002013-11-02T12:49:04.264-07:00The Worship Of WomenIn Femdom literature it is assumed that the whole business of men wanting to be dominated by women is only about sex, but these sexual feelings and fantasies disguise something far deeper. The strange thing about Femdom is that for many men who go to a Dominatrix, they very rarely have sex with her. Which is a bit strange, if Femdom is supposed to be only about sexuality. There are other ways where sexuality for men is restricted by Dominant Women, were in some Femdom relationships men are put into chastity belts, or are cuckold. So perhaps Femdom desires might be to do with something beyond the sexual.<br />
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In my first relationship with a dominant woman, what surprised me was a strong spiritual feeling I felt when I was intimate with her. Unfortunately after I was converted into being very attracted to dominant women I then began to buy Femdom magazines, because they were the only literature that seems to reflect my desires, but these magazines led me astray. This is because they were only about men’s sexual fantasies. It is true in some Femdom magazines, people did speculate why many men today are so attracted to Dominant Women, but none of them gave a satisfactory explanation.<br />
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The problem is that most people do not think that men’s attraction to Dominant Women has anything to do with religion or spirituality. Fortunately, I am greatly interest in the spiritual and became interested in anything to do with <a href="http://www.starhawk.org/pagan/religion-from-nature.html">Goddess religions</a>. So, through this I learn about the ancient religion of the<a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Great-Mother-Analysis-Archetype-Neumann/dp/0691017808"> Great Mother</a>. And it is through this knowledge that I was able to connect my desire for Dominant Women with my spirituality.<br />
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In the Femdom scene some women call themselves Goddesses, and men will worship them like a Goddess. But no one seem to mention in Femdom literature about any spiritual feeling through this worship, and I believe there is a good reason for this.<br />
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All of us have been brought up to believe in a male god. So if we believe god is male we find it hard to think of god in any other way. So when men who believe that god is a male, worships a woman as a Goddess, he only sees this as a fantasy and cannot take it beyond this, because of his religious beliefs. This is also true of the woman who is being worshiped. She might think it nice to be worshiped as a Goddess but cannot take it into the spiritual realm, because she believes in a male god.<br />
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Many people today find it strange that in the ancient past, people once worshiped god as female. At one time, in the Neolithic age, people assumed that the world was born from the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mother_goddess">Great Mother</a>, while the idea of a male god who created the world, was completely unknown and only came much later. But if we go back to the ancient worship of the Great Mother then we can see the worship of women by men, as a very spiritual act.<br />
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If we accept that God is female rather than male, then all women on this planet are representatives of God. So if a man believes in MotherGod, or the Great Mother, then it is easy for him to see any women he worships, as a representative of MotherGod on this Earth. Likewise the woman who is being worshiped, can also see herself in the same way. And through this both the man and woman can get in touch with the powerful spiritual feelings that can come through this act of worship.<br />
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So for any man and woman who can accept that God is feminine, and practice the worship of women, can go far beyond the sexual fantasies of Femdom into the realm of the spirit.<br />
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