We have in our patriarchal world a strange phenomenon called
femdom where men strongly desire to be women’s abused slaves. What makes this so weird, is that we live in
a male dominated world. So why would men
have desires like this, if they are suppose to be the dominant sex? Does this mean there is something wrong with
these men, or is the belief that men are naturally dominant, not true?
We have to question the idea that men are dominant when we
find that throughout history, slavery has been commonplace. Ancient civilizations like the Greeks and
Romans were slave economies and even in societies that didn't have slaves, still
had serfs and peasants, which were treated nearly as badly as slaves. As the French philosopher Jean-Jacques
Rousseau was to observe, "Man is born free, and everywhere he is in
chains."
What we find in the whole of recorded history is that a just
handful of male rulers found it easy to exploit the vast majority of
people. This is as true today as it ever
was, as the majority of the world’s wealth and power is in the hands of only 1%
of the world’s population. So how is
this possible? And why do the common
people allow this?
The reason for this, is that men are totally obedient to anyone
in authority over them. An extreme
example of this total compliance was seen in World War One. In this war, millions of British, French,
Russian and German troops all obeyed orders to come out of their trenches to
face near certain death by machine gun fire.
The mystery is, why so few men didn't obey these insane orders.
In World War Two, the Japanese took this blind obedience a
step further by ordering their airmen to crash their aircraft into enemy ships
in kamikaze attacks. Muslim extremists in
more recent times have their own version of suicide bombers by attaching
explosives to their body and blowing themselves up in crowded areas.
So why are men so obedient that they will kill themselves
when ordered to do so? Or easy allow
themselves to be exploited by a small ruling elite? The only answer is that men seem to have a
slave mentality. When we see how easy it
is to enslave men and make them totally obedient. We have to question whether men are truly the
dominant sex.
So if men are not dominant, what about women? In every patriarchal society women are oppressed
even more than men. This is because; the
ruling elite have invented laws and customs to keep women in a state of
servitude. For thousands of years, men
have been told that they cannot be ‘real’ men unless they are able to dominate
women. To do this, they have been
encouraged to use their greater size and strength to impose their will onto
women.
An extreme example of this is the ‘honour’ system in Muslim
countries where a man is dishonoured if his wife disobeys him. He then expected to either beat up or kill
his wife to regain his ‘honour’. It
seems that the ruling elite has had to work harder at oppressing women, than
they do at oppressing men.
The problem for women is that when they become very good
subservient patriarchal wives, men don’t appreciate this and treat them with
contempt. In much the same way the
ruling elite has total contempt for the very obedient men who keep them in
power. So why have the ruling elite in every
country of the world have been so anti-women?
The reason might be that women are their main competitor, in being able
to enslave men.
The power of any ruling elite depends of the total obedience
of the men they rule. For instance, the
power of an emperor, king or dictator depends on the total obedience of army of
young men who will kill, maim or torture anyone who opposes or questions his
rule. It is true in democratic
governments, things are more complicated.
But as we see today, billionaires can subvert any democracy, because it
is so easy for them to bribe corrupt politicians. But if a ruling elite doesn’t enslave and
exploit men who else can do this? The
answer might be, women.
What if all of patriarchal indoctrination are lies and women
are the natural dominant sex? Could it
be that all men would have a powerful desire to worship all women and desire to
be enslaved and dominated by them. This
would mean that the femdom fantasies may not be the kinky desires of a small
group of men, but what most men want and yearn for.
So if it is natural of men to want to worship women why are
we living in a male dominated world? The
answer seems to be that thousands of years ago a small group of men used men’s natural
obedience to authority, to their own advantage.
The archaeologists Marija Gimbutas put forward a theory that
back in the Neolithic age we lived in peaceful matriarchal societies. Then about five thousand years ago, warlike
patriarchal tribe swept down from the North and conquered them. They could easy do this because a handful of
extremely violent men can always defeat a far larger army of peaceful men who
are averse to killing other people.
So what Marija Gimbutas theory suggests is that women had no
trouble in dominating men, until a small group of men then used violence
against matriarchal people. But once
patriarchal rule was established then patriarchy has retained its power not
only though violence but also through propaganda and indoctrination.
Patriarchy couldn't have lasted unless men have a natural
desire to blindly obey those in authority.
So instead of men obeying women, as in the last matriarchal age, men now
obeyed a small ruling elite of rich and powerful men. So how can ordinary men and women break the
power of the patriarchal rulers? It can
be done by challenging patriarchal lies and propaganda.
Feminism has been fairly successful in doing this by
questioning the idea that men are the natural dominant sex through proclaiming,
women and men are equal. As the result,
we now see more women with wealth and positions of power. The problem with feminism is that it sets a
limitation of what is achievable by women.
As feminist push forward to gain more power, they find themselves being
accused of sexism as well, if they gain too much power for women.
The cornerstone of patriarchal propaganda was that a male
god ordained that men shall rule over women.
So if people believe this, then it suggests that very bossy women or men
with femdom desires are either sinful or sexual perverts. Something feminist would also agree with,
because they believe in sexual equality. For this reason, men who believe patriarchal
indoctrination try to suppress their femdom desires. At the same time bossy women try to conceal
their dominant nature as they face strong criticism in patriarchal societies,
or even from feminists.
If it becomes acceptable for men to have femdom desires and
for women to dominate men, then far more men can express their femdom desires
and not fight against them. This would
make it far easier for women to gain the upper hand in their relationships with
men.
Women are competing with a handful of alpha men, for the
totally obedience of the majority of men.
The more women can get men to their question patriarchal brainwashing,
the more likely men will follow their natural instincts to obey women.
Though if the patriarchal ruling elite realize they are losing
this propaganda war, will they resort to violence? Fortunately women no longer need to be as
helpless against male violence as they once were. The Amazons probably lost out to patriarchal
armies as they were at a physical disadvantage fighting men with swords and
axes. This is not such a problem today,
as you don’t need to be extremely strong to pull the trigger of a gun.
As seen with Kurdish female soldiers, women today can match
men on the battlefield with modern weapons.
Also, male soldiers can also fight wars and yet still be subservient to
women at the same time.
It is only patriarchal brainwashing that prevents men from
following their natural feelings to want to serve and worship women. The trouble is that this patriarchal
propaganda comes to us all from schools, books, newspapers, films and TV shows.
As the result, most people never get to
hear the other side of the story and may not even know what matriarchy is.
Fortunately today we have the internet where men can not
only express their femdom desires but people can talk about matriarchy and why
women should rule the world. Through
this we can reach more and more people and make matriarchy a world-wide
movement.
